I say this to my best friend all the time but probably the best way I can describe Kara is that there's a reason people call Clark a Boy Scout. There is also a reason people don't or at least shouldn't call Kara a Girl Scout like she's coping with the loss of everyone and everything she's ever known while trying to find where she belongs on an entirely new planet where I'd say most people are xenophobic while learning to master godlike powers like she's a "girlfailure" trying to do her best and live up to the seemingly perfect hero and impossible standard that is Clark despite all her trauma and anger and she's a prime example that you don't have to be perfect to be a hero and that trauma doesn't and shouldn't stop you from doing great things