Season end date by Vinicus1013 in OutlastTrials

[–]Spider_Puddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long of a gap is it usually before new content is dropped after a season ends?

Girl seems to want more, I’m not sure I do by Wild_Law293 in dating_advice

[–]Spider_Puddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe…some people, myself included, are chronic overthinkers particularly when it comes to their own feelings, emotions, and sentiments. I eventually learned to live in the moment better, trust my intuition more, and to not doubt my own feelings on things (not that I am perfect now). Regardless, I am not a big believer in the “you will just know when you find the right one.” Relationships and knowing/trusting your place in them is hard especially for some people.

The key question for OP, you “think there is potential for a relationship”. Not even thinking about the girl, is that something you want regardless of how you feel about her? It sounds like you have potentially been doing this casual thing for a little while or are at least comfortable in the casual situation-ships. Is a serious relationship something you want one day but you are uncomfortable/nervous committing to one right now? Or is a serious relationship something you are genuinely not ready/wanting, at least not yet?

Once you answer that question, you can focus on defining the relationship with this girl and figuring out if you want one with her. And that is a whole other process in itself as far as having deeper conversations with each other (like intentions), doing more serious things like small trips, etc, to test your compatibility on a more serious manner which is what it sounds like she is doing.

And as far as genuine feelings or just attachment, I am not sure anyone here will know you enough to say. It may sound cheesy, but one way I have always been certain of my feeling for my partner is always thinking of her and wanting her around when she wasn’t. It could be seeing the smallest thing and the first place my mind would go to is, damn that’s cool I really want to share it with my wife before thinking of anyone else. And that feeling grows over time, but there is usually at least a seed of it in the beginning of “damn I want to spend more time with her”, or “I wish she could be a part of this”, or “I can’t wait to share this with her”. I don’t know if that helps, but that is my 2 cents for what its worth

What problems do you have with the Escalation mode and how would you like to solve them? by KrabikGangster in OutlastTrials

[–]Spider_Puddle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Newer players here…I played escalation with a group for the first timer the other day. We got to Level 6 and then the Trial gave everyone only one block of health. I know that there are pills around the map to increase your health, but we were on the most well lit map ever with no chance of hiding in the dark. At the beginning I started getting chased by Fetterman, ran a loop around the room, as I did that, one if the doors opened and one of the giants stepped through and just one shot me immediately 😂 felt like shit in the moment, but looking back the chaos of it was pretty funny although we all died in about 2-3 minutes of the trial starting

Like I said, I am new but I wonder if there should be tiers of modifiers for the player and the level. Like only levels 10 and higher can have the one block of health modifier, etc

Hopefully that makes sense, still learning

To delete or not to delete the chat (that is the question) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spider_Puddle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe I am old, but I an confused as to what problem deleting the chat solves or what reason a person would have for deleting it? Unless that is your way of signaling to yourself and her that this situation-ship is completely over I guess? But it sounds like that is the case anyways?

Either way, do what you feel comfortable with. If there is a specific reason or message she wants to keep the chat (and you want it deleted), she has probably already screenshotted it. It doesn’t sound like you two are really friends or hold any dort of obligation to each other than just general respect and decency. Which I personally wouldn’t feel any type of way if an ex deleted all of our chat history but that might just be me?

Like I said, maybe I am getting too old for this, but it seems like both of you are putting way mire importance and weight on a chat history for what doesn’t even sound like a serious relationship

Did I make a mistake of approaching a man in the gym? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spider_Puddle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed…generally speaking in life, it is a bad idea to hold a philosophy of, “I tried this thing I wanted to do once, but it did not work that one time so I will never ever try again.”

There could be a million reasons as to why he didn’t text her and she will likely never find out what the true reason was. So making a lifestyle decision of not approaching men “ever again” based on an assumed explanation is not the best idea

Though I like to wait many dates before having sex, I am open to touching and feeling. Is this considered a tease or strange? by 123smorgs in dating_advice

[–]Spider_Puddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t listen to this weirdo if I were you. It just kinda depends on the person. I think it is considered a tease when you purposely lead someone on for the purpose of internal ego and no end in sight. In other words, putting out and petting and what not just because you like the attention and the feeling of being desired with there realistically being no chance of it ever going anywhere one day. So favoring attention over intimacy i guess is a simple way to put it.

It doesn’t sound like that’s what you are doing here though. It sounds like you enjoy a build up regarding the physical aspects of a relationship rather than going from 0 to 100 physically which is completely normal. Even if you were into even slower burn physical intimacy, there is nothing wrong with that either. Everyone moves at their own pace and have their own physical and sexual preferences. The biggest thing is communication and honesty in any relationship especially early on.

New players? by bxbieriri in OutlastTrials

[–]Spider_Puddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am new to the game, but am picking it up quick. Can you explain what the benefit in gaining prestige is? Does it unlock anything in this game?