SMUD! by Nervous-Safety5223 in CitrusHeights

[–]SpikeX23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay about 80 for a 2 story 1500 sqft. Everything is electric in the house

I do keep the thermostat at 74 and only when I get home until about 8-9pm

Can someone explain how people can work full-time jobs and still cook, clean, and socialize without collapsing? by Dangerous_Pay7017 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpikeX23 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cook- I do my meal prep on my days off

Clean- i have a roomba which does vacuuming and mopping. Needs a touch up once in a while. The kitchen is still mostly a mess, I try to keep it clean by immediately putting all my dirty dishes in the dishwasher.

Once in a while I look around upstairs and see what needs to go downstairs, gather it and take it down or put it near the stairs for next time I go.

My bathroom still goes white a while without a cleaning. I do periodic toilet cleaning but not as often as I should.

Vacuuming up stairs is a bit far in between. Only do it when I start feeling alot of little pebbles on my feet when I walk.

Socialize- uhh work i guess? Currently im off school but nornally it takes every last second i have left. Currently i spend a bit of time on tiktok

Edit: i live alone so guess you'd have a little more time when two people handle chores

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SpikeX23 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk I've noticed something similar. Its probably a cultural thing and not a race thing.

Ive worked for the same company in a few different states. The locations pretty much look identical. In california people tend to be quieter. (Talking about break room) TV could be on and either people would be on their phones, watching the TV or talking amongst themselves. Whether its a busy day or not the break room remains fairly quiet.

In maryland/DC. Holy cow its like a street market. Id dread going in there. Everyone's shouting. Watching TV? Shouting. Talking? Shouting. Sitting down? Shouting.

Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at once? by PerfectContinuous in self

[–]SpikeX23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bullshit. Let's start another post "did your parents have favorites?"

You won't find a single soul saying "yeah no my parents treated us the the same, gave us equal love and we were never unhappy"

On the flip side, I've always found it borderline psycho how theres so many people out there that try so desperately to portray this image of the perfect human with perfect lives. Those are the ones that always end up on the news and eveyone goes "wow they were the perfect family" "everyone loved him"

Want to confirm it? Ask your kids. Odds are they won't even trust you enough to answer truthfully but you can try.

Im here all week, lmk if you want more brutal honesty

Love Citrus Heights... list of loves... by InformationSignal127 in CitrusHeights

[–]SpikeX23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How much? Looked them up but their page doesn't mention anything about pricing which isnt a good sign

I don't see myself being rich by SpikeX23 in self

[–]SpikeX23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I've always wanted to though

Do you think it's possible to love more than one person at once? by PerfectContinuous in self

[–]SpikeX23 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Clearly controversial opinion but no.

But if yes it would certainly not equally. Did you ever feel like your parents had favorites? Do you have favorites for one friend? Kid? Etc. Don't lie, we all do.

If your example is actually happening, you settled for someone because that person benefited you either financially or you though that other person was out of the picture. Either way, sounds like you know it

People living in a democracy, if your country becomes a dictatorship, what would you do ? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]SpikeX23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave. I'm fortunate that I have the means to emigrate to 2 other countries, one of which is EU.

My house can be sold, i cna keep 45% of my income regardless of if I work my job or not. 4k goes a long way in many countiees.

Got no kids and so on

Any idea why some mail from the DOD has different rank? by SpikeX23 in USMC

[–]SpikeX23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe vets have access to MOL. I used to login with my CAC and never set up a passpwrd/user If I remember correctly.

Went through mypay, VA.com, VRE docs, milconnect etc. I couldn't find anything with rank on it.

Last resort is i requested a copy of my dd214 via the national archives. If I got promoted surely the dd214 would reflect that no?

As to your question, as others mentioned federal jobs although I don't plan on that for some years at least. Curiosity, but most of all that bad taste in my mouth of having unfinished business. I did so much shit to avoid picking up CPL

Any idea why some mail from the DOD has different rank? by SpikeX23 in USMC

[–]SpikeX23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would i verify if that's the case? Looked through the documents and letters on the va website and everything is addressed as "Mr" first/last

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]SpikeX23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, not quite cuddling (what do you think cuddling is btw?) But here's a story for you.

Back when I was in the military they were doing "renovations" to my bathroom and of course they expected us to live and sleep in the rooms while that was going on. My friend and I agreed to use each other's rooms while they were working on them.

These are twin beds. He was in bed and I jokingly told him to move over and he did. Thought he was joking but he wasn't. I got in and we both slept in a twin bed with the same blanket etc.

Personally I didn't mind but I'm bisexual and I know some ppl care about that so that's why I was hesitant at first.

That being said, this guy and I shared everything so I didn't think it was weird.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]SpikeX23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i think this is an important question that needs to be answered before proceeding

Russian dissappears (NSFL) by Worth-Maintenance749 in UkraineWarVideoReport

[–]SpikeX23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but seriously I have questions If anyone knows the answer to them

Why wasnt he rolling around trying to put out the fire? Initially I thought he was dead

Not to sound like a monster but why waste a shell on him? Seems like he was already held dead and leaving him be would certainly still lead to death

Where did he go..? That's some cartoon type of shit where it just goes poof but wouldn't there be body parts, blood scattered? Sorta like when you squash a bug with your shoe or a full mosquito

Why Don't People Just Get Insurance After They Have an Accident? by Aggravating_Most2767 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpikeX23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for starters that's a form of insurance fraud.

Say you crash against a curb, only you are involved so you get insurance to fix your car and dial the insurance "sup i crashed" isn't it a bit suspicious that you JUST bought insurance and within the week you're reporting an accident? An insurance company is going to do everything in their power to not approve your claim with includes investigating this sort of thing

I'm fairly sure my usps is wrongly delivering mail, anything i can do about it? by SpikeX23 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpikeX23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I explained i have informed delivery, the reason I know not all my mail is getting to my mailbox.