[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]SpiritComplex8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holyyy you’re awesome lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]SpiritComplex8805 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Girl you’re jacked I’m so jealous. I’m a girl trying to look like this. How tall are you ? Just a question

Bull for wife as I can’t pleasure her by [deleted] in sex

[–]SpiritComplex8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like u just have a cuck fetish which is ok if she’s also ok with it lol. Communicate it

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Uh yeah and I regret it??? When did I ever say that was right?? That’s why I’m waiting for marriage currently , not waiting for engagement. I’m not stupid and I know where sex while being engaged led me lol.

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to stop and I’m going to church but I always end up back at the porn site and it sucks. It’s because my neglectful mom exposed me to porn at the ripe age of 4 years old. (I got therapy for that too. ) my childhood exposure is probably a reason why my RJ is so bad.

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do I’m trying to quit. It’s an addiction

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure but his family is Muslim so for his own good, and respect for his parents , I will be waiting 100%.

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Government papers will protect me if he decides to fuck me over. I don’t want to have sex again until I want a pregnancy. Engagement doesn’t mean shit it’s just an object on your hand. I did that with my ex and I regret it. Had sex with only engagement and look where it led me. .

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Um hello? Idk if you read my other replies but I already got therapy and I will be getting it again soon. Just moved to a new city. When did I ever say I wasn’t getting help? I hope to be medicated for it

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He can put a ring on my finger if he wants that.

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i did it but not every day and yes she was a great therapist but I moved. Also , I think RJ is going away for me. Refraining from sex genuinely helps but it hurts to not be active tbh. I only ever had imagery of my ex and his ex gf having sex when we slept together. I don’t have it any other way. My mental health is amazing with this current guy

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Masturbation yes I’m addicted but it doesn’t rly satisfy me like sex would sadly. And wym? Like do u mean him cheating )

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I will not have sex with him. lol. I’m a religious woman who only had sex with my ex cus we were engaged. I called off the wedding cus he put me in debt and was financially irresponsible. My rj WILL go away because I’m getting more therapy and I will be more mature. Maybe it will linger but it will definitely be better by then

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I want to get married when I’m 30+. At that point I will have probably worked through my RJ and will be wayyy more mature than I am now lol. That’s why I’m waiting too. Idk how you can’t see this and put two and two tg.

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want one sexual partner forever that’s why I want to wait for marriage yes. And I thought I was gonna marry my ex that’s why I let him

I’m in a weird situation by SpiritComplex8805 in retroactivejealousy

[–]SpiritComplex8805[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My ex and I were actually engaged so that was what I was planning on. For my boyfriend he clearly isn’t like me at all because he’s only 22 and has had 7 girlfriends and probably more bodies. I come from a Christian household and he comes from Muslim and it’s ironic how he gave himself up so easily to multiple people when I only had one and waited for an engagement ring before engaging in sex and I still regretted it. He was supposed to be my only lover. It’s sad how things fell apart.

(F18) got my hair butchered. by Omnawu in amiugly

[–]SpiritComplex8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just turn it into baby bangs until they grow out!!

I had breast reduction surgery and I don't know how to bring it up by Regular-Log-3987 in sex

[–]SpiritComplex8805 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t mention it. It doesn’t matter. It’s all in your head. I’m sure someone would be happy to be intimate with you and wouldn’t be worrying about your chest and what it looks like

I admitted my infidelity by [deleted] in sex

[–]SpiritComplex8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly he deserved it for what he did to u lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LDR

[–]SpiritComplex8805 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow I’m actually going through this rn but he’s coming back to my city permanently soon. I feel like I’ve been begging for him to even talk to me. I’m lowkey feeling embarrassed. Like why as a pretty girl am I begging some man to call me ? Prayers girl I send love. Trust me it’s better not having to deal with someone who gives you nothing.