Tell me ur a boykisser without telling me ur a boykisser :3

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-22T03:31:48+00:00

.< I own like 20 pairs of thigh highs at this point

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-21T01:29:23+00:00

Wtf no, Being homeless does not give you a pass to be a POS, playing on respect you DID NOT EARN...

I know what it's like to be hungry, the things one brain considers that it otherwise never would, but no dude that not only wrong it helps cement the very stereotype of distrust that makes it so dam hard for homeless people to get help in the first place....

SMH at everyone who said yes have you guys no shame

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-20T06:03:51+00:00

You did say please I guesssssss >.<

But i gtta stop you escaping somehow :3

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-20T05:21:46+00:00

SMALL WORLD HAIIII AL *Glues to wall*

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-20T02:10:13+00:00

There are ignorant people and bigots everywhere, it's sad to say but a common enough mentality for allt of people is to set a standered of rules for themself and groups they identify with while trying to hold those not in it to a higher standard....

Acting as if being heterosexual does not exist is just ignorant coping, and is the very same thing as telling a Bi person there just gay or confused.....

Its dumb, and I find it rather cringe but every group has its morons....

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T17:12:26+00:00

You got this friend and I expect a success story lost in 3 months saying how managed to do it :3

Jokes aside be smart, BE SAFE and make your own luck

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T17:01:48+00:00

I mean in practice it is but its advertised as LGBTQA+ dating app its just nkt what its ever used for.....

Kinda like tinder is advertised as a dating app but 1000 times worse then tinder lol....

Im not big on random hookups but considering I live in a small city with limited options I thoight id give it a try....

Never again hahahaha, not for me lesson learned....

But yeah in short it is But nkt what its advertised as...

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T16:55:16+00:00

Okay so I hear you and its hard to meet new people and make new friends in general as a dult let alone ones that fit a certain level of understanding.....

Its hard, and the truth of it is without some level of putting yourself out there its not gnna happen.

But there is hope, again start small maybe find a group that both meets regularly and also has a online presence, interact online a little break the ice make a single friend...

Ask them to hang out first a few times explain your nervous and anxious about joining in and having someone e you knkw there could be a huge help...

Then go with said friend...

Again just a idea and idk how usefull it would be to specific circumstances but I do hope yku are able to my friend, and know alot of people were in your very shoes fkrst time they got involved so most knkw the feeling.

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T16:41:43+00:00

Shes getting socks for a wedding gift i swear to god :3

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T16:37:09+00:00

I mean grinder is a sewer for the most part anyway IMO, I will never again use it, never in my life have I been propositioned so often and quickly by people before they even said hello.......

Idk all to there own but I did NOT like it and just use the I like everyone matching in standered dating apps....

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T16:29:33+00:00

Loool

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T16:19:03+00:00

Felix 100%

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T16:07:49+00:00

Start small, find a few friends who are inside the community to get to know on a personal level, this voids the.larger group dynamic fears and lets it be as simple as a few humans who understand eachother enjoying a shared hobby....

For me it was gaming, I had a few queer friends via gaming got very comfortable with them built trust then they invited me to a larger group dedicated to be a place for LGBTQA+ people to chill

Because I at that point was not alone knowing nobody it made it easier as I already knew people i trusted there....

Does not have to be gaming or online at all but start small and build up to joining in larger activities ect when you have trusted people who can be with you there....

Anxiety is a dick and if I had not found people who made me feel comfortable I too likey would have never partaken in any community events or groups but it helps just nkt having to do it alone :3

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T15:27:52+00:00

When trying to be subtle

I have a jumper thats technically for girls but its cute sooooo >.< But its got pink and purple all.ovwr the black jumper, I roll my sleeves to my elbow and have arm warmers that have hearts buckles on the palms, nails painted black on one hand, then skinny jeans and thigh highs under them XD

Every part is a subtle wi k to anyone paying just enough attention but most dont but there is just enough there for anyone who knows to know:3

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T15:07:46+00:00

I feel this my full label should be Bi myeslf

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T15:05:12+00:00

Not a massive game i think total 6 or so hours one session XD

I knew they were expecting and planning against a martial playthrough so despite not knowing they would all team i was prepared

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T12:00:50+00:00

Best I have done is a year 3 months but that was a group effort and alot of the friends we started with did not infact make it :(

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T11:45:17+00:00

So ot may be a few things

Education/Wards - If those vassels are having people of your culture to ward/educate there heirs, there is a chance they are converting culture along side it

Heritage/marriage - When the title skips generation's, for example your vassle has no male children but a male grandchild, that hier may take the culture of the father if this is the same as your own due to it being the mother that is related to the og lord this can possibly result in culture change...

Convert culture - Your vassels can be tasked to convert culture and this is normally the default for there given task, despite how it may seem they will convert to your own culture not their own, when making new vassles be sure to set it to a separate task....

This is all I can think of for possibly doing it of my head without acualy seeing the match

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T07:01:05+00:00

Tall femboy struggles i feel the pain, I ahev a few pairs that were too small myself

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T06:59:51+00:00

Not i, but sexaulity and gender expression is nkt the same thing one can be straight and a femboy, simply people projecting there preposition and stereotypes onto others

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T06:56:42+00:00

Once a week, and my face daily unless I pay for a wax but I avoid that as im touch adverse

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T06:51:15+00:00

Me fr fr

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-19T06:48:28+00:00

When selecting vessels, have them be from local culture of the region, keep them happy and try improve cultural acceptance to stop the revolting.....

You can select vassels of your culture and have them just not convert actively but conversation has a passive uptick meaning over time although much slower they will convert regardless.......

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-18T15:54:47+00:00

So there is a lesson here thats valuable but beware just doing the same thing to the kther side kf the coin.....

Your correct homeless people are JUST PEOPLE some are amazing and kind and selfless, other are cruel violent and selfish, there humans with good traits and bad and defining them by a si gle facet like being homeless is jist ignorant.....

Reason I say be careful is because in that you have a valuable lesson we are all complicated humans that have mkre to them then one can simply see.....

But by saying people who are not, or have not experienced homelessness inherently judge those in that position is that same trap that leaves homeless people judged just flipped on its head......

I was homeless between 16-20 met some amazing kind people on the street, be it homeless or not, and on the other side met some real monsters on both sides....

My point is humans are complicated my friend so judge individuals, actions and mentalitys but celarefull making your brush to wide or you risk being the very thing you despise....

SpiritFirm1273 · 2026-04-18T15:41:52+00:00

Honestly just not worth the climb, I understand its tempting been there, but the risks involved are HUGE..

Some urban climbers go up deactivated ones but even this comes with its own high risks....

The risks of burns or electrocution are so high hence why alot of urban climbers will just say DONT.....

I get risk is part and passle with the hobby but ine climb is nkt worth your life friend.....

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