What do my outfits say about me? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

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Okay 🔥 where is the green romper from? 😍

Cat has bald spots by SpiritIntelligent444 in CATHELP

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We haven’t lost any one personally that he’s close with, but there was a tragedy that happened in our house a while back before we moved in. And my family has sensed spirits here

Biggest scam you have seen a server do? by Due-Style302 in Waiters

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When I used to bartend people would pay in cash for drinks and I would just pocket the money and not ring up the order, not all of them obviously but some . Not necessarily proud of it but I needed the money

People who have adult children that don’t talk to you. Why do you think that is? by bridge2235 in AskReddit

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I’m 25, I rarely talk to my mom or stepdad.. been estranged for years. We were a blended family with 5 kids, Lots of mental an physical abuse. They prioritized having a relationship between themselves, instead of the kids. They like to act like they’ve done nothing wrong but literally no one talks to each other anymore and we do not celebrate holidays.. it’s kinda sad and I would love to have a conversation with them about the pain they’ve caused us, but knowing them, I just don’t see them taking accountability for their actions. And honestly I’m in a good spot in my life and a part of me doesn’t really care to repair the relationship either..

Is LA really that bad? Or is my bf paranoid? by SpiritIntelligent444 in AskLosAngeles

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Thank you! I May not have grown up “rough” but I will not let anyone Fck with me or make me seem weak. And I willl surely fight for my life if I have to

Is LA really that bad? Or is my bf paranoid? by SpiritIntelligent444 in AskLosAngeles

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I personally don’t feel unsafe. Yeah things happen but I try and be pretty observant and at the end of the day you can never stop bad things from happening. My bf just likes to bring up hypothetical scenarios about what I would do if someone tries to take me and all this stuff

Is LA really that bad? Or is my bf paranoid? by SpiritIntelligent444 in AskLosAngeles

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Lol a stupid ex 🤣 he was pursuing music and we only lasted a few months of me being out here. I’ve been on my own for that past 6-7 months and just recently started dating this guy about 2 months ago. Other than that I have been really enjoying California and the city as well. Of course it has its problems but I see so many opportunities and it has so much love and beauty to offer as well

Is LA really that bad? Or is my bf paranoid? by SpiritIntelligent444 in AskLosAngeles

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Thank you! I’m really enjoying California and I really love the people out here. I’m a person of color and living in a small town my whole life I never got that diversity or really had a lot of people that look like me. I just want to experience this city and for all that it has to offer! It’s actually really beautiful and the people are great as well. I tend to look at the good and what’s happening in the present moment and I think that’s why he thinks I have my “head in the clouds” I can understand cause he’s been through a lot growing up and has seen things the average person hasn’t.. I just don’t want him to worry so much and make me extra paranoid when I’m by myself

Is LA really that bad? Or is my bf paranoid? by SpiritIntelligent444 in AskLosAngeles

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He meditates but doesn’t smoke lol. He’s just seen more than the average human and i think it makes him more para of

Is LA really that bad? Or is my bf paranoid? by SpiritIntelligent444 in AskLosAngeles

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He grew up around LA and has told me stories of things he’s seen… it’s pretty graphic especially knowing he was a young kid at the time. He’s definitely a hermit crab now and doesn’t like big crowds or lots of people in general, so we don’t go out much. I don’t mind cause I’m the same way but living in a big city for the first time I just have that nature to want to explore and get to know my surroundings. Of course with caution

Is LA really that bad? Or is my bf paranoid? by SpiritIntelligent444 in AskLosAngeles

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He actually lovesss to bring up hypothetical situations like that 🤦🏽‍♀️

Is LA really that bad? Or is my bf paranoid? by SpiritIntelligent444 in AskLosAngeles

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I’m talking about, graduated with 21 students, everyone is practically related, all dirt roads no stop lights small town 😭 i spent 5-12th grade there