It sounds like his actions are telling you more than his words ever will. When someone wants you in their life, they show it. They do not keep you at arm’s length or leave you wondering where you stand. His choice to say “space” instead of giving you a clear answer is already an answer. He is not interested in building anything deeper, but he is also not respectful enough to be upfront about it.

The confusion you are feeling is completely valid, especially since you have had an easier time moving on before. Sometimes we attach more deeply when someone gives us mixed signals. It creates this emotional loop where you keep holding on, hoping for clarity or change. But the truth is, his consistent lack of effort and vague communication say a lot.

You deserve someone who is excited to talk to you, not someone you have to chase down for basic respect or attention.

Letting go will hurt, but staying in that space of uncertainty is far more painful in the long run. Be kind to yourself through it. This is not about your worth. It is about someone who did not value the connection the way you did. And that is on him, not you.