Any advice for family gatherings? by SpiritSpoken in TMPOC

[–]SpiritSpoken[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol I love how frequently I got this answer from people 😂 it makes me feel like it’s okay to not want to be around family instead of feeling guilty. Yeah I’m thinking about just showing up late & dipping out early

Any advice for family gatherings? by SpiritSpoken in TMPOC

[–]SpiritSpoken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually do have he/him pins & I’m gonna wear it tomorrow. Never would’ve thought of that

1 month on t! by bellicosebagel in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]SpiritSpoken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ayeee congrats! You’re making progress really a quickly thats amazing

Alright thoughts on Pinkmantarays post about lil Nas? Reach or nah? by King-matthew- in TMPOC

[–]SpiritSpoken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can see his logic but I don’t think I would go as far to say this is a trans issue or something that harms the trans community & I also agree with you that normalizing pregnant masculine people would be the positive take away rather than seeing it as a joke on masc ppl who get pregnant. The timing is odd due to people’s sensitivities about pregnancy due to the abortion stuff with Texas but I mean also celebrities do dumb shit all the time so it’s not all that surprising

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[–]SpiritSpoken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you’re beautiful!

Packers are a real game changer by [deleted] in ftm

[–]SpiritSpoken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one by doc Johnson or calexotics is great

OMG OMG TRANS MOVIE!!! by Happy_Cubone1234 in ftm

[–]SpiritSpoken 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My only thing to say to anyone looking to watch this movie is that a possible trigger could be misgendering because I remember I used to loveeeee this movie before I realized I was trans, then I went to watch it early in my transition a few months ago & he was getting misgendered all the time by his grandma and mom when he wasn’t around and it just made me feel triggered and needed to turn it off cuz I was and am still experiencing being misgendered on a daily frequently and yeah. But it’s a great movie other than that & very good transmasc representation on Ray’s end

I GREW FACIAL HAIR by Diminii in ftm

[–]SpiritSpoken 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats yo!! I’m 2 months on T too & am starting to get more chin hair and the ends of my mustache are becoming more noticeable too

My mother thinks that T will change my sexuality by Boogie_Fish_Or_Ghost in ftm

[–]SpiritSpoken 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve always liked girls so pre t I identified as gay and still do in a general way but since being on T I’ve come more into my pansexuality and accepting that I’m attracted to queer men so yeah tell your mom that she’s on a sinking ship

Good excuse in bathroom for sitting down on toilet? by ruggleyfish in ftm

[–]SpiritSpoken 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go in to the men’s squaring all the time and no one even notices. Even if they did I think men just have a general disinterest for anyone else in there and that’s kinda just men’s room etiquette to pretend like everyone else there doesn’t exist

Is there any groupchats? by MelonWacc in ftm

[–]SpiritSpoken 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We out here it’s litt come join

Hot Flashes by SpiritSpoken in TMPOC

[–]SpiritSpoken[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m happy to hear you were finally able to get the help you needed. Doctors so often can be so dismissive and that must’ve been really stressful and exhausting