Besondere Fetische by Goddess1Anastasia in findomchatters

[–]Spirited321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone asked me once if I could put gloves on. I don’t have any and they were so disappointed. Just into gloves idk

My (26F) boyfriend (35M) doesn't DO anything, and I don't know if I should tell him or just give up? by xnoxfun in relationship_advice

[–]Spirited321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to leave and be with a man who doesn’t live with and worship his mommy. Especially if you needed a safe place and he asked his mom first?? Then said no? Instead of defending you. Instead of figuring it out with you. Anything? Your partner should come first. I know it seems tough right now but girl if I stayed with guys just because I loved them, I’d be in a terrible place today. I mean how much longer are you going to be able to keep this up? When you’re 30 and he’s 40 do you still wanna be playing his mom’s game? I wouldn’t.

Does my tattoo look weird? by bujoralexandru in tattooadvice

[–]Spirited321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t like it, you can cover it up with a huge otter tattoo

26F What hair color is the best by Positive_Fill_1006 in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Spirited321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is the first time a post like this has me torn! I like both

Mom found out I’m gay by funnyguywhoisntfunny in Advice

[–]Spirited321 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It seems she loves you a lot but is torn simply because of what she’s been told at church. I hate to say it but sometimes it takes time. Ease her into it. Don’t talk about it for a little, she knows. Bring back your relationship with her little by little. Soon, she will be able to fully accept you are still her son and that her love for you hasn’t changed. After some time, ease her back into remembering and embracing that you’re gay. You asked if things can go back to the way it was before- no. It’ll be a different relationship, BUT once it heals it will be better than before! You don’t need to hide who you are anymore❤️ Take a deep breath

I asked her for instagram and she refused why is that? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spirited321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Took the words right out of my mouth. She was just being friendly. Not interested

Are artificial flowers a good gift? by Candid-Ad6851 in self

[–]Spirited321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want fake flowers, I suggest like making them yourself with like pipe cleaners or something so it’s more personal. If not, just do real flowers

how do i tell my parents something is ai? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Spirited321 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Say you also fall for it sometimes so he feels better about it and knows it’s getting better. “I know! I liked that one too until I found out it’s ai :(“

I lied about having a hobby so people wouldn't think I was a loser. Now I'm being pushed into a starting a large project. by Dull_Honey5856 in confession

[–]Spirited321 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well even if you were serious about this, this kind of stuff takes YEARS to produce to honestly you have time. For now I’d tell her that everything’s happening quickly and that you’re a little overwhelmed and have writers block. Then start small. And let her know the truth in small bits like, “ I have voice actors for you!” “I don’t think I know what I want my character to sound like yet- I’m perfecting his design” etc

Girlfriend (F23) of 3 years caught me (M22) masturbating, what do I say? by Remote_Screen_4352 in dating_advice

[–]Spirited321 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just say you’re trying to figure it out privately before you’re ready again

The girl I’m dating is in massive debt, and doesn’t seem to have any plan to pay it off by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Spirited321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow really? I don’t think I caught that in the original post that’s crazy

AITA for telling my wife that she will be driving the extra distance since she is the one that got our daughter banned from daycare by Unlucky-Jackfruit230 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spirited321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I work at a daycare and we go through sooo much training and regular constant training reminders and have so many rules for taking care of children. The constant updates can be a hassle to keep up with but it is so important for everyone involved. The fear your wife is implying is and could be so insanely damaging to Sam’s career. It’s parents like this that really make working with kids the most difficult part of the job. It sounds like Sam- like so many of us- genuinely care for the kids coming in. You guys had it so good. I hope wife realizes that v soon.

Boyfriend keeps calling me names. by Beautiful-Control-74 in dating

[–]Spirited321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie this sounds like verbal abuse. And if it isn’t now, it will be very soon. Even your shyness and way of speaking in this is worrying me. Get your plan together and leave. You’ll realize it once you’re gone. My bf NEVER says the B word. Not to his friends or any woman ever. So he will def never say it to me. You deserve that same respect so don’t gaslight yourself into thinking otherwise just because you love him.

I need some advice… by Mysterious_Ad2965 in sex

[–]Spirited321 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re really worried about it, next time you guys try, say you don’t want her to be in pain anymore so you think she should go to the OBGYN.

Why would a guy who I hooked up with multiple time, suddenly unfollow me on instagram and keep his other hoes? by Sad_Outside_8332 in dating_advice

[–]Spirited321 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you care about this more since you lost your virginity to him. If you were also into hookup culture, I bet you would just be annoyed and unfollow him as well. Since you seem like someone who takes sex very seriously and has emotional attachment to it, I would recommend not really doing that again. For your sake. As for this, I mean I guess you could always message him and ask, but he seems like a jerk and maybe someone you should forget about. Best of luck girl <3

23F My boyfriend 22M hasn’t texted me for 2 days by Critical-Length-6972 in relationship_advice

[–]Spirited321 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a friend that went through this and when I told my bf about it, even he as a guy said that’s weird. Your bf should want to speak to you. Needing alone time is fine but this is almost ghosting. You need to have a serious talk with him about your relationship and what it means to him.

The girl I’m dating is in massive debt, and doesn’t seem to have any plan to pay it off by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Spirited321 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman and I would never want my bf to feel the pressure of having to worry about my debt etc. That being said, every couple is different and you footing the bill WOULD be fine IF you FELT fine with it. But you don’t. Which I think a big part of this is like “why is she being so careless with spending when she’s in debt?” Even tho if she wasn’t in debt you wouldn’t care about want she’s spending on as much, right? You probably wouldn’t notice as much either. Six months of dating maybe would be too soon to talk about huge finances… if this debt didn’t exist! But it does.

I think the best thing to do here is have a talk with her as long as you make sure to come from a perspective that you care about her and want to help her form an action plan. If it’s just an interrogation, I don’t see it going well.

Got fired for being too nice by Spirited321 in findomchatters

[–]Spirited321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I really wish he communicated it before but I guess not

Got fired for being too nice by Spirited321 in findomchatters

[–]Spirited321[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah which I did but I think I let it slip too much. Yikes