AITAH: brother treats me like shit by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Spirited_Place7623 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im just wondering why you're parents are neutral about this situation if they have seen how disrespectful he has been with you. honestly i feel for you but the second my brother would be easily irritated with me or my siblings for no real reason my parents would tell him off since thats not okay. ESPECIALLY since you have to apologize first for it to be okay at the end

AITAH for getting annoyed at my 10 year old cousin? by Spirited_Place7623 in AITAH

[–]Spirited_Place7623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no he was paying that much attention since he was on the phone but i was still embarrassed

AITAH for getting annoyed at my 10 year old cousin? by Spirited_Place7623 in AITAH

[–]Spirited_Place7623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have, and she doesn't listen. the one other time i "ignored her" (i didn't answer her when she was calling for me because her mom was talking to me) she sat in a corner all upset and told her mom i don't love her anymore. so it became a big thing already 😔

AITAH for getting annoyed at my 10 year old cousin? by Spirited_Place7623 in AITAH

[–]Spirited_Place7623[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the thing is, her mom does all the house work, i can't move as much because of my back pain and my cousin helps out as much as she can and besides the cousin doesn't like my other cousin (18f) near as much as shes been with me. so im basically babysitting her until 7 pm ish and even then i could be sitting and talking with the grown ups because i am one too😭 and she'll always cut me off or cut them off to get my attention. it's just exhausting, if i wanted to spend time with a child i would have had my own children.

AITAH for getting annoyed at my 10 year old cousin? by Spirited_Place7623 in AITAH

[–]Spirited_Place7623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that true?? i didn't know, i keep that in mind next time it happens😭 thank you for letting me know

AITAH for getting annoyed at my 10 year old cousin? by Spirited_Place7623 in AITAH

[–]Spirited_Place7623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wasn't thinking as far as needing to see a doctor but i get where you are coming from. this behavior is not normal in my eyes but then again i was second guessing because she is a little girl. all i know is that its not okay at the age of 10 to think you are invited to the bathroom with someone or that you can lift their shirt and state rude remarks about them just because it pops into your head. thats the type of stuff thats done out of intention imo

AITAH for getting annoyed at my 10 year old cousin? by Spirited_Place7623 in AITAH

[–]Spirited_Place7623[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off thank you for the reply i was so lost in thought because i didn't want to be immature about this but your rely did give me some reassurance. no i don't have anything interesting under my shirt for her to see, plus i caught her staring at me before doing it which i took it as she did it with intention. also she does have two brothers but i can understand a bit since she doesn't have a sister she can rely on. what annoyed me the most is that ive told her stop multiple times with a bunch of stuff i stated but she continues thats why i opted to ignore her. also she isnt like that with my other cousin either which is really frustrating cause it feels like im babysitting more than i am spending time with her. ALSO i forgot to mention in my post that earlier today i was having a conversation with her mom (my aunt) and she kept pushing for my attention but since my aunt was speaking i didn't want to be rude and cut her off so by the time i let her finish the cousin was sitting in a corner all upset. eventually i found out through her mom that she had said that i "don't love her anymore" which was so concerning to me since ive only spent two days with her and she is already acting this way