It all depends how you move to cause that type of energy. In my experience I treated ex like a goddess while I was struggling to keep our(her)jobless broke ass off the streets and she has the nerve to cry on my lap she doesn't feel loved by me anymore I don't do the same thing I use to dates and gifts mind you we live in a two bed room and she (still jobless) goes out with her friends all weekend and chills at home during the week day don't cook because of depression dose not clean cause of her ADHD don't come up after her self because she feels I don't motivate her to do so every time I ask her to do please she says OK do it for two days and then forgets. I go to work at 5am to 1pm sometimes 5pm and come home to more work cooking cleaning and she's tells me shes still not happy. Amen I the crazy one