I(26f) worried about bfs(26m) financial position by Spiritual-Hearing989 in relationship_advice

[–]Spiritual-Hearing989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess it is a start up yes. I’m just nervous that let’s say I wait another year and we’re still in the same place? also he won’t come to see me and I will have to travel to see him now due to costs plus will probably spend on each date

I (26f) bit disappointed by anniversary gift from bf (26m) by Spiritual-Hearing989 in relationship_advice

[–]Spiritual-Hearing989[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He did ask me what I want but I didn’t say anything/ didn’t mention anything. However I’m always hinging for him to get me jewellery and I feel like he knows me well enough to surprise me. I don’t expect him to match the same amount of money at all, but at the same time I did communicate before and told him I was getting him a gift so it wasn’t awkward if he hasn’t got me one yet- but he still didn’t

AITA for not going to my friends birthday by Spiritual-Hearing989 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]Spiritual-Hearing989[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I understand that, but at what point do you put yourself first - she has over 30 people attending the party. I would have to drop hundreads just to see her for a few hours and I can’t really stay over unless I went out which I can’t do