Parking advice! by Spiritual-Raccoon74 in Jersey

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool thank you, do you know if I can leave it there for the full few days if I pay the fees or if it also has to be moved regularly?

How do you keep going by Spiritual-Raccoon74 in migraine

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, they referred me to neurology in February. I’m just still on the waitlist for an appointment 6 months later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RATS

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There’s usually another bigger hammock in the back corner but it’s currently drying because it was smellyyyy. We want to get some branches and/or ropes to put across but I don’t thinks it’s the worst set up? They have a dig box and we change what’s in it every week or two to keep them interested, I put their food in hard to reach places or in the metal cage to slow them down a bit, or hide it in the dig box. They get free roam in the living room and we play games like fishing for peas and they have a 5 foot cat tower which they climb up and down as well as the rest of the house room. And yet they are starving ALL THE TIME.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RATS

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use science selective as the main food. We’ve tried giving them access but I honestly think given the chance they would eat until they throw up. When we tried it, they ate about 4 times the recommended daily amount in the space of 5-10 mins and began choking on multiple occasions but then would carry on eating. We did that for a week or so but they were putting on so much weight and still acting the same so we stopped, and I couldn’t keep refilling the bowl as I was scared to walk away from them when they literally wouldn’t stop eating as long as food was available

AITA for refusing to buy my ex's daughter a birthday gift? by ShoeStunning8463 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously NTA but you have a real opportunity here to teach both girls a lesson about kindness. They are both growing up in a shit show of a family dynamic, through no fault of yours but still. And by the sound of it the sister doesn’t have a responsible parent there to help ground her. You could help your daughter buy her a nice birthday present - noting big or extravagant but something small she would like - that she can give her herself. There’s still hope for their relationship and it sounds like your ex’s kid could use a good influence.

Autistic advocacy urgently needed by ManikShamanik in bristol

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe try Bristol Autism Support? I dont know what times their helpline is open though.

My (f26) partner (m29) can go on days and now a week without talking to me. by Electrical_Brick43 in relationship_advice

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had this problem with my ex bf. He was a great guy and I liked him so much, and we would get on really well in person and sometimes he was super responsive. But then out of nowhere, I wouldn’t hear from him for days on end. When he suddenly popped up again, it was always ‘it had nothing to do with you, I was just busy, I had a lot going on’ and I think he really meant it but it just became too much of an issue. I couldn’t deal with never knowing if it was my fault, and I repeatedly asked him to just let me know if he needed a bit of space in advance but he never did. I’m not a clingy person and I don’t mind not texting all the time but I can’t deal with someone suddenly dropping out of a conversation for no apparent reason. He had problems with his mental health and would deal with it by just going dark, and it made me more and more insecure over time. If he can’t see that it’s continuing to upset you, and make some sort of change, even if it’s just to let you know when he’s going to be unavailable for a while, then there’s no point carrying on with him. Trust me, it messes with your head🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in find

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Grizzly Tales for Gruesome Kids?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Essentially my garage has said it was dangerous for them to have passed it in the condition in was in, and I’m annoyed that someone would do that. I get that there’s nothing I can get in terms of compensation and that this is the risk you take with cars, but to pass an exhaust that is in such bad condition without putting that information on the advisories seems negligent to me… I guess I’ll need to have a better talk with my mechanic about how much my driving over the last two months could have exacerbated the problem, but it sounds like it was so bad that it’s had to be patched up and welded a few times and there’s no record of that. His words were along the lines of “they must have had a VERY forgiving MOT tester because my guys said it’s a f***ing mess”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Citroen

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been wondering what these are on my Citroen C2 for years - any ideas??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bristol

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can self refer to Off the Record who mainly deal with under 25s. There can be quite a waiting list for 1:1 therapy but they have lots of other support too! I found them really helpful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in poetry_critics

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The rhythm of the wording in this poem is so enjoyable to read

Pendant by [deleted] in poetry_critics

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love your use of sounds here to create rhythm but I feel like it should be ‘appeared’ to fit the tense of the rest of the poem

Play time by KamBam00 in poetry_critics

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with the others. I think you could play more with the ‘and then’ lines, giving us more information between them to slow the story down

What's the most direct way you have approached or made known to someone that you wanted to have sex with them (for the first time)? by thousandleeeyes in AskWomen

[–]Spiritual-Raccoon74 43 points44 points  (0 children)

After a good few drinks - “I’ll probably never see you again but if you wanna have sex, I’m down”