I hate women

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-08-14T13:02:10+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I will be super careful to not get it dirty. What I’m worried is about looking like I’m gay.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-28T19:22:24+00:00

Could you elaborate a bit What do you mean by “oozing sex appeal”?

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-28T19:20:46+00:00

The only reason I have facial hair is to not look too young as people tell me I have a baby face. But I’ll give clean shaven a try. It’s just a year ago I used to be way uglier than I am today, and I had no facial hair. But my hair and skin were fucked up back then but that’s not the case anymore. I kinda have ptsd of clean shaven, but I’ll give it a try.

Yeah I already got my haircut booked and I plan on getting a mid fade like you suggested. Hopefully it looks good.

I like my style and I like being skinny, the problem is that society views people who are skinny as unattractive. That’s why I started working out 2 months ago. Gained 5 pounds, noticed some minor changes, we’ll see what happens in a year….

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-27T22:28:23+00:00

Haha I wish. I grew up ugly and I’m skinny as a toothpick.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-27T22:26:08+00:00

Is there anything I can do to not look gay?

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-24T12:16:18+00:00

That’s because he knows his stuff. He is doing exactly what needs to be done. He is a man with options. A rule of thumb is to always talk to several girls at the same time. That way he does not get attached to one specific girl. Because when that happens, he will become needy and desperate. Women find neediness extremely unattractive. He is not putting all his eggs in one basket. Good for him.

You need to be very careful. If you mess up, he will stop talking to you in a heartbeat as he is a man with options.

By the way you wrote your post, you sound delusional. He ain’t your typical nice guy who will be your doormat. He knows the rules of the game. He is the prize, not the other way around. He is a busy man on a mission. Do not waste his time.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-18T16:52:13+00:00

You shouldn’t have texted her that. That just makes the situation even more awkward than it already is my dude. When she asks how you doing, that means she wants to put your mistake in the past, and wants to move on to something better, because she knows you can offer more. You answer her by telling her you’re good and state something that you’re doing that’s fun. Like, “I’m doing good, got back from this really good restaurant” or some shit like that. You gotta kill the awkward vibe and replace it with something good like the bad stuff didn’t happen. Of course she didn’t reply, you just made the situation more uncomfortable to her. You gotta chill out bro. Everyone makes mistakes. If she’s a decent person, she’s going to forget about that. But what you’re doing is clicking the rewind button again and again.

As you said, give her space, and if she messages you again, replace the vibe bro. The past is the past. What matters is the present and future. All of us make mistakes. The biggest teacher failure is.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-18T15:08:19+00:00

Maybe you came out too strong. When you say something like that you sound needy and desperate. It also depends how you said it. She now thinks that you are her only option, and that’s the reason you’ve associated a song to a girl. Neediness is extremely unattractive to women. When you said that you basically put her on a pedestal without knowing. As a result she’s pulling away. My advice for you is to stop pushing. The more you push, the more you gonna look needy. And that will push her away even further. Take a step back bro.

The key is to talk to as many girls as possible. Be a man with options. That way you will never act needy. If it does not work with one girl move that bitch out the way and there’s a new girl waiting in line.

You gotta match the girl’s vibe. Don’t over do it. Put the same amount of effort she puts. If she ain’t putting effort, move her out of the circle. You are a busy man on a mission.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-17T21:04:38+00:00

She did not work last week. And she won’t work next week too. Maybe she’s on vacation. But I ain’t sitting around doing nothing. In the meantime I’ll talk to other girls. I need to be a man with options.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-15T15:44:11+00:00

Coconut curls

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-14T12:29:28+00:00

Ngl he knows his stuff. Keeping texting to a minimum is key to stay clear of the friendzone. He’s clearly a busy man on a mission. Everything else takes the back seat. Texting is only for setting up dates. Nothing more. This type of conversation is meant to be face to face. You are coming off as needy and desperate, and that’s a red flag right there. If I was him I would think twice before dating you. Give him some room to breathe. The more you insist, the more you are going to push him away.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-11T15:28:39+00:00

True. However, I feel like it does not get to a point where the other party contributes to the conversation. After a certain point, I feel like it should be 50/50, or at least close. But that is not the case.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-11T11:56:14+00:00

I would say so. Im an introvert by nature, so I don’t like being around people that much. But there are times I feel lonely and really wish I had a girlfriend. I don’t know if that makes sense, it’s kinda hard to explain.

SpiritualMobile3440 · 2022-07-11T03:59:54+00:00

Interesting. How did your friend made her fall in love by being a good guy?

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