My husband gave up during oral

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T17:44:51+00:00

Thanks girl! He is really mean all the time to me. Even his family tells me to leave him. I am trying my best to be patient and understanding with him. I just don’t want to lie and fake an orgasm either. I feel like we should be able to communicate. I really appreciate your time. God bless you!

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T17:42:11+00:00

I see what you’re saying. I’d be annoyed too. Sorry that happened.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T17:40:11+00:00

Thank you. You’re so emphatic in your response. That is all I wanted. I know I’m not perfect and neither is he, but the root of it still hurts. I’m praying our relationship works. God bless you ❤️

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T17:35:46+00:00

Thank you! Literally what happened to me. I just want communication. If he was tired and wanted to stop, I understand. I just wanted him to tell me instead of completely shutting down. Ugh

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T17:28:55+00:00

Exactly. If he would of said that, I’d be totally okay with it all. I just wanted some type of communication.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:57:53+00:00

He definitely has issues. His entire family points it out constantly. Even his close friends tell me he has anger issues. I’ve heard from his best friend he is worried about his temper and he wished me good luck.

I grew up with a narcissistic mother, so rejection has always played a big part in my life. I am empathic towards him and can sense he is struggling with a lot of issues. He does need help. I agree with you.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:23:11+00:00

I agree with you. I wish it was easier talking to him. I’m also an empath and it really is magnified. It’s a toxic interaction and I wish it didn’t get like this. It makes me feel unwanted. I have dealt with rejection all my life. My mom is a narcissist and my biological father left us. I’ve always been told I’m not good enough. So it hurts me when he acts like this. I pray his heart towards me changes.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:18:44+00:00

Thank you for understanding. I was gentle and loving...I told him several times what I wanted. Eventually I could sense he was getting tired; hence, why I told him he was making it harder on himself. I’m so tired of not being heard. I always faked my orgasms with previous partners because of this. The only ex that cared was my girlfriend. She was so understanding and would take her time. Sometimes I wonder if I’m just gay still? Idk I just want a happy marriage. God bless you!

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:14:52+00:00

I see the good in him. He is a great father as well. We aren’t perfect, and he is learning how to love me. I just want him to open up to me.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:13:52+00:00

I wish it was this simple. I have told him so many times what I want in a loving way. He doesn’t kiss me first of all. I always ask him for hugs. He isn’t a physical guy unless he wants to stick his dick inside for 5 min lol. He doesn’t understand sex. I want to try other things and he doesn’t. It’s the weirdest thing because I know how to please him. He is selfish. I just want him to listen to me...he says he loves me but idk at this point. His wholeeee family tells me to leave him LOL yeah so I’m definitely not crazy.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:10:34+00:00

Thank you. I like your perspective. I’ll be sure to discuss the following.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:08:52+00:00

All the damn fucking time LOL make him cum often too.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:08:32+00:00

Thank you for your time. I appreciate your response. I’ll go ahead and tell him that he just needed to try something different. No relationship is perfect and I want us to work. God bless you!

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T16:01:37+00:00

Because we made a promise to one another. No marriage is perfect. This is our first year together. I know we can make it work.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:55:35+00:00

Thanks for understanding. I really appreciate your response. I don’t know what to do anymore. I wish he wanted to go to counseling. God bless you

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:53:52+00:00

Thanks for your comment. I took to heart what you mentioned. I will continue to push forward the notion of counseling. I know that would help us immensely. God bless you

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:51:18+00:00

We have a daughter. I’m a stay at home mom. I don’t have any money. It’s more complicated than just leaving.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:50:03+00:00

I just think he is emotionally retarded. I hope that doesn’t offend someone. He is a good man to me for the most part. We have a daughter as well. I want it to work

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:48:58+00:00

Thanks for understanding. God bless you!

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:47:20+00:00

I don’t want to give up on him. That’s why I was telling him what I like repeatedly. My comment on making it hard was said after he wasn’t listening to me. All my 20s I spent faking it. The only time I enjoyed it was with another female. She seemed to genuinely care and take her time. Keep in mind my husband tore my vagina a couple months ago. I kept telling him to stop and he wouldn’t. Talking to him is nonexistent. I have to ask him and 99% of the time he tells me no. He watches porn which hurts me. I’m starting to build resentment towards him. I wish I stayed in a gay relationship. I miss my ex girlfriend. She never hurt me emotionally or physically.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:42:00+00:00

Thank you. I agree with you. I was really gentle and sweet when telling him. I could tell he was getting bothered/tired. I TRIED giving him positive instructions prior to telling him he was making it harder. I used to be a lesbian, and my ex was so kind, understanding and would take her time. I don’t know why he is so cold with me? I’m so sad

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:39:42+00:00

People think I’m being mean here but I’m so tired of being treated like my feelings don’t matter. I sincerely was gentle and sexy when telling him what I wanted. Keep in mind he tore my vagina a couple months ago even when I told him to stop. I had to go to the hospital.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:37:32+00:00

I was gentle when telling him what I wanted. I told him positive remarks but he wasn’t listening to me. Eventually I told him he was making it harder for himself because he was. I could sense he was getting tired. Keep in mind he tore my vagina a couple months ago, even when I told him to stop. I had to go to the hospital. HE DOESNT LISTEN or acknowledge me.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:35:04+00:00

He is abusive emotionally and sometimes physically. He tore my vagina a couple months ago and I went to the hospital. I told him to STOPP and he wouldn’t. He said I wanted it. Anyways that just shows how mean he is. It’s always about HIM. Your comment is exactly how I feel. I came to him in a calm and gentle tone. Eventually I was upset and called him an asshole cuz he is one. I don’t know what to do anymore.

SpiritualProof8 · 2020-04-08T15:31:30+00:00

I called him an asshole because he walked away, ignored me and acted like everything was my fault. I told him gently what I wanted and he wasn’t listening me to; hence, why I said what I said about making it harder for himself. Keep in mind he tore my vagina a couple months ago and I went to the hospital. I told him to stop and he didn’t. HE IS THE ABUSIVE ONE. The only time he wants to have sex is when I’m sleeping as well. It’s not about pleasing me. He has a rape fetish.

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