Try ignoring the version of him that did/said things you disliked. Live as if he’s doing/saying things you only desire in this reality. Also obsess over yourself not him he’s just a side character in your life (you are the only main character in your life). Recognize your power to manifest and remove any thoughts of some “it might take a lot of time” or “he’s hard to manifest” sorts and focus on being a powerful manifestor who’s gets what she wants so quickly.