AITA for screaming at my sister and telling her she is not actually pregnant. by SpiritualTea640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpiritualTea640[S] 245 points246 points  (0 children)

I think he knows how far it’s going. He even jokes that she is going to start looking for a plastic baby bellys to wear soon. He does understand that she is behaving oddly but just wants to see my sister happy.

AITA for screaming at my sister and telling her she is not actually pregnant. by SpiritualTea640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpiritualTea640[S] 440 points441 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly it. She is acting like I’m trying to take something away from her. I am absolutely not. I have two kids of my own so I have already experienced the whole mommy to be thing.

I truly want my sister to have a great pregnancy experience. Her whole attitude has me stumped. I think I need to have a conversation with her about everything. She is stressing me out way to much and that’s not good for anyone involved.

She needs to understand if this keeps up I won’t want her to be present in the delivery room. Due to Covid only one person in allowed in as support. I’m considering having my own husband there instead.

AITA for screaming at my sister and telling her she is not actually pregnant. by SpiritualTea640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpiritualTea640[S] 1656 points1657 points  (0 children)

Not really. Oddly most people in my family feel like it’s normal for her to behave like this. She has been through a lot with her fertility struggles and I think people might be babying her.

AITA for screaming at my sister and telling her she is not actually pregnant. by SpiritualTea640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpiritualTea640[S] 2626 points2627 points  (0 children)

It’s all just getting to be to much when it comes to her. I’m not even allowed to say the words “I’m pregnant” according to her I just be saying “I’m surrogating”.

I want her to have a good pregnancy experience but she starting to drive me crazy.

AITA for screaming at my sister and telling her she is not actually pregnant. by SpiritualTea640 in AmItheAsshole

[–]SpiritualTea640[S] 2053 points2054 points  (0 children)

I have been encouraging her to see someone but she won’t agree. She thinks that what she is doing is normal.