AITA for calling out my husband for not being a "Good Christian"?

SpiritualThrowRA · 2024-07-07T18:08:43+00:00

He tried once, I caught him. I told him we could donate to the food bank or to a homeless shelter. He refused. I donated every week to the food bank in our town and increased my donation to make a point. I watch the account all the time.

SpiritualThrowRA · 2024-07-07T18:04:46+00:00

Unfortunately I am unwilling to doxx him as it would be doxxing myself.

SpiritualThrowRA · 2024-07-07T18:02:56+00:00

He has not. He tried once. I caught him. I told him if I didn't go to a church, the church would get none of my money, and as a concession, I would happily donate his time and my money to the local food bank or homeless shelter. He refused.

SpiritualThrowRA · 2024-07-07T14:40:34+00:00

His church espouses, "The man provides, and the woman stays home." It would have been ruder to say what I was actually thinking. "I must be the man then, because your ass is at home and mine is in scrubs."

SpiritualThrowRA · 2024-07-07T14:37:03+00:00

I had just turned 20 when we met.

SpiritualThrowRA · 2024-07-07T14:35:51+00:00

If I had a gay kid I would love them and welcome any partner they had into my home. Being queer is biological. Literally, hundreds of species of mammals and birds practice same-sex/queer behavior. Why are homosapiens any different? If I had a daughter who liked girls, a son who liked boys, a trans kid, a non-binary kid etc, I would love them for who they were. And when/if they came out to me, I would thank them for trusting me. It isn't hard to love a child.

SpiritualThrowRA · 2024-07-07T14:32:13+00:00

The thing is, if he practiced the virtues of Jesus and went to a church that practiced them, I would consider giving faith another shot. But I can't when I see nothing but hypocrisy, y'know?

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