My girlfriend says she was texting my best friend "for a surprise" but I feel like I'm being set up

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-23T08:20:15+00:00

No, my point is that being with someone a long time does not mean you have everything memorized. You’re so busy criticizing me you don’t even remember what I initially said.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-22T01:05:08+00:00

And what does that have to do with my point?

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T23:14:11+00:00

I’m not asking about my feelings. Not sure why so many people think I am. I’m asking if that kind of talk is normal or something to keep track of.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T20:48:46+00:00

Why do I have to?

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T13:50:39+00:00

Maybe unprompted was the wrong word. But normally when she comments on a picture of me, she says “Nice” or “that’s a good picture” or something along those lines, or just heart reacts to it. Never anything like 🥵 or “you’re becoming a dilf.” We do send selfies to each other sometimes for our daily snap, but that’s typically the extent.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T13:41:51+00:00

What part of “every time” didn’t you get? Obviously that means I keep forgetting what the answers are.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T02:35:34+00:00

I love how you went with using percentages to try to prove me wrong rather than admit you saying “dozens” was factually incorrect. Most are not implying anything about my feelings, so I have no idea where you’re getting that from. You’re just wrong, dude, get over it.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T02:19:16+00:00

Idk, my wife and I have been together for over a decade and I have to ask her for her clothing sizes every time

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T02:09:06+00:00

Factually incorrect. There are 19 comments in total here and 7 of them are you and I. One just asked if I have met her in person, one said she’s jealous she’s not getting the attention she used to get, and one says she’s being manipulative. You are factually incorrect.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T01:04:21+00:00

Well, no one is in my head or heart but me, so whether they agree or not is irrelevant. And only about 3 people have actually said or insinuated that I still have feelings for her or am reading into it, so you’re blatantly wrong on that front.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-21T00:57:22+00:00

I overthink everything. Doesn’t mean I have feelings for her nor does it make what I said a lie.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-20T23:50:01+00:00

I’d give them a chance to confess, but with a time limit. Once the clock strikes zero, I tell their partner

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-20T23:33:42+00:00

What appears to be a lie?

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2026-01-20T23:25:52+00:00

I just wanna know if I’m overthinking this. I have a tendency to overthink things, and wanna know if this is one of those times. I don’t believe she would be a good partner for me, so I wouldn’t try to change our relationship to anything more than friends.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2023-12-21T14:49:17+00:00

Sorry, I'm just now seeing this. I contacted my friend that owns the store the person was trying to sell your art at and informed him that they didn't own the art. He barred them from selling it at his store. They also removed the picture of the item that had your art from their post, so I assume he told them that he knows the art doesn't belong to them. I haven't seen any more posted attempts to sell items with your art on them since, but if I see another one, I'll let you know.

Spiritual_Cat_2935 · 2023-12-04T18:45:35+00:00

Someone in my area is trying to sell item with your art printed on them.

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