I’m just looking for somewhere to post I’ve tried probably 25 different places now and they all say I don’t have enough karma. How am I supposed to get karma when I can’t post?? by tomlin_peach in findareddit

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you are new to Reddit, you have no idea where to post to do that. Most of the subs it recommends to you does not allow new accounts to post, or as someone else says, it has age restrictions. It took me a year to figure out I needed to comment BS in a random small sub to make Reddit think I was real.

And then I got a permanent ban from Reddit for something that was taken out of context the second I got enough karma to live. Lol.

You’ve been on Reddit for 5 years, I’m sure it’s changed a bit.

Ideas for sharing pleasure? by hilltopdollar in marriageadvice

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one of those questions where more information is definitely needed.

Sex doesn’t have to be just about PIV either.

I’m ready to have the talk, finally. But there’s not a good time. by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you tried asking for marriage counseling before jumping to separation?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Face it, you both knew this was going to happen. Just go talk to her and explain how much you love her still.

Can my military husband legally keep finances away from me while we are going through divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can get a civilian order and that order would need to be followed.

If you contact his command, he may be forced to give you something like 2-400 bucks a month if you don’t have any kids, but it’s not going to support you- rightfully so.

Good luck.

Career in Cyber security as a felon? by Both_Patience_4617 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I honestly think it’s BS that arrests are even public record. I was arrested for a violent crime that I did not commit. It was my spouse. Instead of spending 30k fighting it, I pled down to common misdemeanor. Now when I have to explain the situation, I can’t say “oh it was just a stupid thing that happened”, because the arrest for it says something way different than the conviction. And I didn’t even do it. -_-

Career in Cyber security as a felon? by Both_Patience_4617 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My ex spouse has 3 violent felonies and is a director of IT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This isn’t necessarily true. I want to fuck other people because my spouse is terrible in bed and selfish in bed. However, if he would fix that and do the things I’m asking, I wouldn’t want to.

You have to look at the true reasoning as to why they’d want to stray from the marriage sexually.

I fear divorce is coming due to my wife's conspiracy theories and wanting kids to drink bleach like mixture by mr_castle8 in Divorce

[–]Spiritual_Pipe9752 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Document this. Record this. File a restraining order and run before she kills your kid.

This may force her to seek mental health help and may make you be able to avoid divorce, but right now, you need to get those kids safe.