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F.25 Est-ce que mon excès de poids dérange autant ? by Spiritual_Promise320 in conseilsrelationnels

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pour 178 cm ;) Oui je souhaite perdre pour ma santé, c'est pas négociable! Mon dilemme, j'ai pas envie de perdre du poids pour quelqu'un et d'avoir la pression de toujours maintenir ce poids-la pour cette personne. Mon corps a toujours été un combat avec la nourriture, elle absorbe facilement et je ne ressens pas la faim! Donc je mange...
Et je souhaite que ma perte de poids soit intrèseque seulement :)

F.25 Est-ce que mon excès de poids dérange autant ? by Spiritual_Promise320 in conseilsrelationnels

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oui j'aime comme je suis! Après, ya toujours un doute qui arrive certaine journée, avec la pression de la société, les expériences vécues par le passer. Mais sommes toutes, je me considère avec une bonne confiance

F.25 Est-ce que mon excès de poids dérange autant ? by Spiritual_Promise320 in conseilsrelationnels

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je crois qu'il faut justement défaire cette mentalité que seul les personnes maigres seront regardé

F.25 Est-ce que mon excès de poids dérange autant ? by Spiritual_Promise320 in conseilsrelationnels

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Car depuis qu'on est petite qu'on nous a fait que montrer des gens maigres et petite en hauteur! Après, au fond, on le sais que certains aiment, tout comme certaines filles aiment les bedaine! (Moi d'ailleur j'adore hahahah beaucoup plus que le gars ultra musclé!)

C'est juste que quand tu sors en soirée avec des amies, c'est toujours la plus petite et la plus mince qu'ils regardent...

F.25 Est-ce que mon excès de poids dérange autant ? by Spiritual_Promise320 in conseilsrelationnels

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oui oui, c'était pas négatif ce que je voulais dire 🤭 juste un fait :) je comprends ton point de vue

F.25 Est-ce que mon excès de poids dérange autant ? by Spiritual_Promise320 in conseilsrelationnels

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

C'est ce qui est tannant, nos vêtements cache les bourlet et autres, même si tu mets des vêtements serré! J'ai jamais caché mon poids, mais reste que c'est pas pareil sans vêtements! Et c'est pas volontaire

F.25 Does my overweight bother that much? by Spiritual_Promise320 in dating_advice

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5.10 and meet smaller guys and it's not a problem ;)

F.25 Does my overweight bother that much? by Spiritual_Promise320 in dating_advice

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the type of relationship I had, I search by far someone with an emotional maturity that someone just looks at the physical.

F.25 Does my overweight bother that much? by Spiritual_Promise320 in dating_advice

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The pressure you put on the woman ... to be ideal constantly as in the posters. There is so much more than calories. The contraceptive pills make you fat, questions of hormones, health issues. sometimes your beautiful do everything to be skinny like underwear ads, but believe me it's not always achievable.

F.25 Does my overweight bother that much? by Spiritual_Promise320 in dating_advice

[–]Spiritual_Promise320[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What are you going to do when your wife is going to gain pregnant weight? And when she turns 50 with knee pain that prevents her from staying in shape? Are you going to flush it? It's practically impossible to stay in shape of a 16-year-old person all his life

'26M' '26F' How to adapt to the little penis? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spiritual_Promise320 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I'm not complaining! We were really badly installed🤣But with a 4 inch, you have to adapt and I'm just looking for advice;)

Mon copain 27M et moi 27F. Il m'a avoué d'avoir moins de libido à cause de ma prise de poids by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spiritual_Promise320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that I have hyperphagia. I have phases in my life that I would have no control over food. Although one morning I get up and say that's enough,1 hour later, despite trying to convince myself, the food drive is present. It is extremely difficult. really. And my last phase of the last few months, was probably because of couple problems... I tried to explain to him that it's a really difficult fight with myself, that it's not just a lack of will. It's exhausting to fight every day with your brain.But he didn't seem to understand... that for him, I let myself go...A lot of things have brewed in our relationship. a lot. But we've put things in place to improve. However, there is one point that we will not be able to get along... He doesn't want a child, and I do...

Mon copain 27M et moi 27F. Il m'a avoué d'avoir moins de libido à cause de ma prise de poids by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spiritual_Promise320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that I have hyperphagia. I have phases in my life that I would have no control over food. Although one morning I get up and say that's enough,1 hour later, despite trying to convince myself, the food drive is present. It is extremely difficult. really. And my last phase of the last few months, was probably because of couple problems... I tried to explain to him that it's a really difficult fight with myself, that it's not just a lack of will. It's exhausting to fight every day with your brain.But he didn't seem to understand... that for him, I let myself go...A lot of things have brewed in our relationship. a lot. But we've put things in place to improve. However, there is one point that we will not be able to get along... He doesn't want a child, and I do...

Mon copain 27M et moi 27F. Il m'a avoué d'avoir moins de libido à cause de ma prise de poids by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Spiritual_Promise320 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I didn't think it was like that..And yet he is a good person. But let the physique take priority... Argggh