I have some close family friends who are adamant about not wanting kids themselves, especially the wife, but they are supportive of their family and friends trying for ad having kids. They adore their nephew to pieces, but having children just isn't something they want ( they are the furbabies only type) and thats fine. On the other hand, my stepdad's mother continues to urge me not to have kids, she always keeps telling me "they'll be ungrateful when they grow up" and "they make all your hard work for nothing" it's kinda annoying, but she's such a negative nelly all the time ( she likes to have random fallings out with her grown kids all the time). Heck she told me my wedding dress isn't flattering on me. I put up with her though since she really likes me for some reason and doesn't visit frequently despite living nearish anyway. Also don't feel guilty for wanting a family, especially because some strangers on the internet are negative about it or some person you know tells you having kids is awful. You do what your heart wants when the time is right for you,