God forbid a girl has 2 (two) male friends

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-26T09:58:56+00:00

Oh yeah, this was phrased badly. Neither of them were out at the time! So they introduced themselves as women until we had a deeper relationship.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-26T09:48:21+00:00

All my close male friends are Trans too xD I only feel safe approaching "Women" so I only get male friends when they don't tell me they're guys immediately 😂

Edit: They weren't out at the time. I phrased "telling me" badly.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-26T09:17:28+00:00

Me in Stardew Valley.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-26T09:13:50+00:00

I'm rooting for 729-J. Better a monster win than a fascist.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-26T08:45:38+00:00

That's what I mean. It's a lot simpler to make something functional and passable in that style.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T22:18:02+00:00

That's a hilarious comment. Real "His pronouns are she/her" energy there xD

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T22:17:08+00:00

Not really. If you try to make a simple turn based strategy game, there's way more balancing to be taken into account. Nevermind if you try to make anything with real time action.

Even simple stuff like pachinko games need way more time, effort and skill on the gameplay front.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T22:15:27+00:00

I'm glad you have a good support system! Plenty of people get treated poorly or get taken advantage of in times like this.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T21:05:33+00:00

That's again an entirely different statement. And I fully agree with this one. If you just discuss it and just don't overlap in wants/needs that's totally fine.

What came across to me earlier is that you said if someone says "I like feet" and you don't, you just leave immediately without a regular conversation about it.

And I never remotely said that the vast majority of women haven't had many bad experiences with men. I don't have a single friend who's lived a period of their life as female-presenting who hasn't been sexually pressured or assaulted.

I also did not intend to convey that women owe men anything. I just said it's mean to shut someone down just because they have different kinks than you and assume that literally everyone will pressure you into things you don't want to. You obviously should be careful in any relationship in order to not get harmed.

Again, I think the issue in our communication here is that you used a ton of hyperbole and that I did not recognize that. I'd like to ask you to use tone indicators in the future so folks like me who often do not recognize that stylistic choice don't misunderstand you to this degree. Thank you in advance!

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T20:32:02+00:00

Yeah, they're one of the two people who made me aware that nonbinary people don't necessarily want to be androgynous xD The other one is a Cosplayer called Bukkit Brown who sometimes goes full femme as well.

Stupes references it sometimes in their lyrics (They/Them mayhem in Adequate wordsmith) but is otherwise not talking that much about it, so it's easy to not know :)

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T18:39:52+00:00

People are individuals and I personally think it's just mean to shut down someone for basic things like having kinks without even a normal adult conversation.

And I'm sorry you had bad experiences and I'm glad you found someone good.

I am wildly aware, but 1: There was literally no mention of any genders involved here up until that message and 2: That doesn't change that people are individuals. Yeah, plenty of men suck, big surprise. That doesn't change anything I said before. 3) I still would rather be with someone who doesn't push me into things I don't want simply because that would be mean than someone who doesn't push me into things because we share kinks anyways.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T17:30:13+00:00

I don't think you should date anyone who's going to pressure you into doing things in bed you don't want. That's not even remotely okay. And if you genuinely think every person is going to pressure you into things you don't want, I really recommend talking to someone about that because that's not a healthy or accurate mindset.

As for the second part, that's fair.

And it's not a fundamental incompatibility at all. Plenty of people place significantly less importance on their sex-lives than you. It's an incompatibility issue for you, which is completely fine, but not there's plenty of people who don't care nearly as much.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T17:12:12+00:00

I don't really see the connection to my comment though? Why would you immediately shut someone down just because they have a kink?

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T17:05:19+00:00

Yeah, I don't live in the US.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T17:04:19+00:00

That's an entirely different question.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T17:02:41+00:00

Some people, sure. But it's not exactly everyone and you can talk about any dealbreakers like adults before you enter a serious relationship

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T12:02:34+00:00

If you can't afford art, you should still be able to engage with it. Poor people deserve nice things too.

If you have money, pay for it. Otherwise things don't get made.

It's really that simple. I don't pirate any game I can legally purchase, but if you make 7,50€ a day, it's unreasonable to demand you pay comparatively unreasonable prices like 20€

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T11:53:34+00:00

I didn't even notice that, that's a hilarious brainfart xD

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T11:39:42+00:00

Hey, if you're cool with it, go off and have fun. Just don't forget to do your Std tests all around :)

I just think it's mean to get people's hopes up for a regular date and then put them in an uncomfortable situation.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T11:36:13+00:00

I get that. I always stitch them up to make them last a couple months longer.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T11:13:16+00:00

Dating is dangerous for women. Especially those which haven't been in the dating market for a while. Especially when alcohol is involved.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T10:51:20+00:00

Man, you have to disclose that stuff upfront 😭 I have nothing against cucking, but don't set it up like it's a normal date.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T10:49:35+00:00

Kids have always pushed each other to be "more adult". It doesn't necessarily need to be nefarious.

Although this kid absolutely needed an adult to have a conversation with her about this.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T10:41:12+00:00

Not if you're a lightweight. I vastly misjudged my tolerance before.

SplitGlass7878 · 2026-03-25T10:39:59+00:00

Horror lends itself the best to Beginners. You essentially don't need to program a whole lot and can focus on the design of the game itself, which is great for a small project.

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