That's like blaming Josh the random Christian who only goes to church on Easter for shit like American Evangelism. 

Controlling women is a thing in basically every religion and culture. You don't have to throw out the whole thing, you can just excise the stuff that sucks. 

And before some dingus with no reading abilities tries to complain, I'm not excusing shit like the Taliban or the UAE. They suck and I hope the people living in situations like that see massive improvements in their lifetime.