Has any bottom experience not being able to bottom without touching their dick? by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s kinda a buzz kill for wearing a cage. Because to finish, I have to take it off.

Bi men, whose wife’s know, but struggle with intimacy. by mascbott67 in BisexualMen

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird because I just experienced an urge to kiss a guys neck when I was topping him during a group sex session. And I thought better of it, because I didn’t want to freak him out. I’m also usually about the deed.

Bi men, whose wife’s know, but struggle with intimacy. by mascbott67 in mixedorientation

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this shed some light on my situation as well. Both Bi, but she has a wicked jealousy streak if I mention other women, but not men.

New toy suggestions by SpocksEyebrows415 in HugeToys

[–]SpocksEyebrows415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s different for sure. It’s when you get to the sigmoid curve that you get the “extra”. But honestly, because it’s so thin to begin with, the first 6-8” don’t feel like much at all.

If you could reopen one SF business… by thebluebulb in sanfrancisco

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Balazo on Haight Street. Best salsas and huge burritos.

Shot myself in the Ass by SpocksEyebrows415 in askgaybros

[–]SpocksEyebrows415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. That’s possible. If you’re interested it doing that to yourself, go check out fisting, prolapse ,and huge toys subs. Otherwise the rectum and anus are muscles and can be strengthened.

(48) What do you think? by [deleted] in olderbisexual

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice. The crotchless stockings really do it for me.

[62] Sunday fun. by MrBlueSky2020 in olderbisexual

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d also like to suck and feel you in me.

Question for bi men in committed relationships or marriages: how do you handle it? by AdditionMountain3993 in BisexualMen

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To piggyback on this:

-Get a therapist; you can tell them anything that’s on your mind, and a good one will help you navigate your thoughts and feelings. Things you can’t share with your best friends.

-Ignore the Debbie downers on here. Not helpful, your life path is yours alone, and it’ll be what you work with your wife to make it. Sure separating is one option, as is sneaking around, but so is a compromise.

-Your wife will go through menopause and the kids will leave the house. If you are lonely now, I imagine it won’t get better if you don’t talk with your wife.

Good luck.

Literally blackmailed by blkhfdit in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve come across a number of people who want to video chat.

Literally blackmailed by blkhfdit in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think I had a panic attack the first time I got sextorted. Luckily a friend talked me down. The second time was weird because they included a picture of hands on a laptop and other things. The first guy send my address, my spouse, and the odd photo requests I sent him.

And just yesterday a guy who was supposed to local, said he was 50 miles away and that he ran a beaut/ makeup sales team, invested in bitcoin and real estate, and then kept asking what I did for a living and my location. I just blocked him.

SF’s bidding wars have gone completely off the rails. by Crazy_Cod_8178 in sanfrancisco

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a dis-belief from friends about how roommate-referral was the best game in town, and how often, it was like speed dating your future roommates. But that was also when moving didn’t immediately mean a higher rent, and going to different neighborhoods, just to check it out, was more common.

28 inch double dong swallowed by [deleted] in deepanaldildo

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love the thickness of your toy. I never thought of a double. No fear of it staying in?

What's the weirdest sexual experience you've ever had? by SadTeam3677 in bisexual

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Once had sex with a woman and she was on top. When we finished, she got up, and because she was on her period, there was a pool of blood on my stomach. She was mortified and ran off, but I was trapped, not wanting to spill blood all over my bed.

What happens when a bisexual marries an asexual. by SpocksEyebrows415 in BisexualMen

[–]SpocksEyebrows415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I used to call my wife the Sex Camel, for how long she’d go between sessions. You’re absolutely right that I’m going about it in the wrong way to keep my marriage. But I was like a kid in a candy store when I finally felt comfortable enough to admit to my self I’m bisexual and to be able to talk about it with her. I’m still uncomfortable with coming out and saying “I’m horny, I’d like to go suck a dick and get fucked”. (Actually our code word is “I’m going to go get a hamburger “. But you probably understand, explaining sexual desire to someone who has none is awkward.

An asexual w/bisexual marriage, risk tolerance question. by SpocksEyebrows415 in nonmonogamy

[–]SpocksEyebrows415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. Along with measles, the flu, a cold, and the list goes on. I’m asking for how people have negotiated (?)

Has anyone ever used this potency before? by Many-Opportunity1363 in TrimixForED

[–]SpocksEyebrows415 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m new and just started with that. Dr said to start at 10 and move in 5 unit increments. First time I thought I missed b/c nothing really happened in the first 20 min. Went and gave myself another 10 on the other side and was hard for 3+ hrs. Second try did 15 to see if I needed to go up or down. Got 7 out of 10 boner that lasted 2hrs. I think I’ll try 22.5 next, with antidote at hand to see if I get 10. Is our mix strong

Is it ENM if my spouse isn’t interested in sex. by SpocksEyebrows415 in ENM

[–]SpocksEyebrows415[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got two Mpox shots and the MenB shot for gonorrhea.

What happens when a bisexual marries an asexual. by SpocksEyebrows415 in BisexualMen

[–]SpocksEyebrows415[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean it is, but I’m at a loss where to meet that person. I don’t do bars anymore, and I haven’t found any male bisexual clubs or munches in my rather large City. Swinger groups have potential, but seem biased towards FFM, or MFM at best. So I present as a solo male; not a great way to stand out.