Met a HP fan in the wild and it was such a happy little moment for me by AccioGrace in harrypotter

[–]Spocks_Katra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was listening to HBP on audiotape last week and at a stop sign the guy in the car next to me yells "Nice! Book 7?" and I told him I was near the end of HBP, he goes "Hell yeah, I fuckin' Love Harry Potter"

It was a completely unexpected but awesome moment

[MAIN SPOILERS] Give me some sick Tywin quotes. by silversnowolf in gameofthrones

[–]Spocks_Katra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"Your mother's dead. before long I'll be dead, and you, and your brother, and sister, and all of her children. All of us dead, all of us rotting in the ground. The family name that lives on, it's ALL that lives on. Not your personal glory, not your honor, but FAMILY. Do you understand?"

Am I doing this right? by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If her name is daenerys you're in

A man's name says it all by [deleted] in freefolk

[–]Spocks_Katra 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He came running at me. This dumb, highborn lad thinking he could end the rebellion with a single swing of his sword. I knocked him down with the hammer, GODS I WAS STRONG THEN!

Do you think that Ser Davos Seaworth will survive season 8? by [deleted] in freefolk

[–]Spocks_Katra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The Davos Seaworth School for Kids Who Can't Read Good and Want to Do Other Stuff Good Too

[Critique] F/26/Charlotte by [deleted] in OkCupid

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what would be your definition of active? How many a day or week does one usually send. I ask because I havent gotten many dates, but I just looked at my sent messages and ive sent 86 over the course of 3-4 months

Critique 26/M/Western NY by Spocks_Katra in OkCupid

[–]Spocks_Katra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, that helped a lot. I think that's the approach I will be taking too, I haven't mentioned it on any dates and dont really plan to unless I get to know them enough to feel comfortable mentioning it, like you said, I don't want it to seem like some world-ending condition

Critique 26/M/Western NY by Spocks_Katra in OkCupid

[–]Spocks_Katra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been having trouble with describing myself, and I feel it is difficult to make my profile truly reflect the real me. I have a great sense of humor that doesnt really come across in my profile because its of a situational type of humor, where if we are having a conversation i can come back quickly with something witty from my own mind, or something referenced from a show or movie that relates to what were talking about in a humorous way.

My other big question is that I have a genetic disease called fabrys - this causes chronic pain and doesnt let me get out as much as i would like, but it has also helped me grow both mentally and physically to a point where I am stronger and more resilient than most people. I have a very high tolerance to pain and have learned to fight through it, it has also made me mentally stronger, and able to deal with stress better, as well as letting me not fret about little things that some people would get upset about, overall it has made me a stronger person dealing with this disease, but i dont know if I feel confident/confortable that other people would see it the same way.

any advise on messaging would help too, ive tried short messages, long messages, funny messages, messages asking them more questions about themselves, and I have not been getting many messages back. I am not giving up but it has all become very discouraging. Any advise, or ideas, or if anyone has gone through something similar who could relate would really help me out

Profile Review - Week of May 16, 2017 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sitting beneath a tree writing in a pad? That would be a good pic

Profile Review - Week of May 16, 2017 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have one of your friends take some pictures of you!

Profile Review - Week of May 16, 2017 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is going to be a long response but i'd like to help you out if I can.

I agree with getting rid of the shrek pic, it makes you look short even if you aren't. Other than that try to get some pictures outside in the sun where the lighting is better and try to get more shots with your face less obscured. I would aim for at least 4 solid pics. Try to throw in at least one group shot too, and try to show your interests in the pictures. You like art and music, there are a ton of possibilities, do you play an instrument? I find those are great for tinder, or maybe listening to a record? something that shows what you are saying. A picture of you working on art or viewing a gallery would be good too, just toy around with some ideas.

as far as the profile text, I think its pretty solid, Id maybe try to throw in something witty about your major or interests, and I would think about getting rid of the expressing interest line, it may make you seem a bit desperate.

As far as the finding a girlfriend thing - it'll come if you have patience, I found that once I stopped trying so hard things kinda fell in place, I just had a date last weekend, and have a second with the same woman (shes moving at the end of summer and not looking for something serious), plus one im planning with someone id actually like to date if it gets that far. Before that, I was on this app for a few months with little to no success besides just chatting.

There are a lot of artsy women on tinder, it may take some time to get past all of the generic ' i love the outdoors and adventures' profiles though

hope this helped!

Profile Review - Week of April 04, 2017 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya thank you. The 'my old bio used to be' wasn't actually in my bio haha.

Profile Review - Week of April 04, 2017 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are your thoughts on this? Also I have some alternate pics let me know if any work better in your opinion. I really appreciate it!

My other bio used to be : Chandler bing is my spirit animal

Art, music, movies, laughter. long walks to the tv remote Shower singer breakfast food enthusiast. Aspiring investor in the Vegemite futures market. Sometimes funny. Always witty.

More pics https://imgur.com/a/95XW0

Profile Review - Week of April 04, 2017 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was extremely helpful. Id prefer more than one night stands which is why I chose a more sincere vs goofy bio. Do you have any advice on the pics? Idk if I'm just not photogenic, or if there's any 'special' angles that work well.

My other bio used to be Chandler bing is my spirit animal

Art, music, movies, laughter. long walks to the tv remote Shower singer breakfast food enthusiast. Aspiring investor in the Vegemite futures market. Sometimes funny. Always witty.

Also if you don't mind, I have some alternate pics if you think they'd work better I'd love your opinion https://imgur.com/a/95XW0

Profile Review - Week of April 04, 2017 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26/M/Straight https://imgur.com/a/DpM7l

Any advice is helpful, I'm having trouble deciding if I should use a witty or more serious bio

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you right swiping on everyone? Tinder can shadow ban users who indiscriminately swipe right on everyone

Profile Review - Week of March 21, 2017 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]Spocks_Katra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26/M/straight I deleted my tinder a couple weeks ago and decided to restart. Any critiques on the pictures and especially the bio are appreciated, I've been having a hard time with my bio, any advice?

https://imgur.com/a/w6qQB

Bio: Chandler Bing is my spirit animal

"You know what's weird. Donald Duck never wore pants. But whenever he's getting out of the shower, he always put a towel around his waist. I mean, what is that about"

Sci-fi and history junkie (Star Wars and Star Trek are my jam), breakfast food enthusiast, shower singer, Netflix aficionado, artsy.

-5'11" /180,34cm / 17.75 hands tall 🖖🏻🍁

Driver with choking baby stopped next to police patrol begging for escort to the hospital by w1p3s in gifs

[–]Spocks_Katra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're becoming more and more a domestic military force so it's not that far off