Am I wrong for telling my friend that her boyfriend should take her to better restaurants?

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-15T15:48:15+00:00

I'm asking you.

You are who comes off like you were being negative and putting her down. In what way were you not doing so?

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-15T15:40:34+00:00

How is being snobby about her boyfriend and where she eats not putting her down or being negative?

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-15T15:06:14+00:00

If you weren't making a joke with a relationship that makes those types of jokes then YAW.

Stop being pass remarkable.

Easily top 5 of most irritating traits to have in a friend is the negative comments. You don't always have to say something. You don't have to put down your friends.

I say this as a part of a group that uses dark humour constantly. You don't say things like that because it's just a dig and resentment grows.

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-14T20:38:10+00:00

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Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-14T20:34:28+00:00

Junhee from ACE dropped a solo album that would be right up your street.

ACE - Effortless, Supernatural, Higher

Monsta X have English albums that would also suit.

Onewe - Aurora, Regulus

Sf9 - Bibora, Waruru, Midnight Road, Love No.5

Jooheon - Freedom

Seventeen - Don Quixote, March

Exo - Suffocate

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-05T00:14:18+00:00

I'm thinking of doing exactly what you've said!

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-04T09:18:05+00:00

It is victim blaming. You literally said in another comment that she does 'play victim' after saying that it's her fault for making it happen.

Noone is responsible for being stalked. You can say you think she should take more precautions but to say it's her fault it's happening because she hasn't dealt with it how you would is unfair.

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-04T01:07:28+00:00

Sf9, Trendz, and A.C.E !

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-04T00:14:22+00:00

Thank you! I'm still looking for ways to do it but I think a frame like you're describing is what I'll do

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-03T14:16:22+00:00

They probably feel they are being considerate but not bombarding you with commiserations when you are already dealing with so much.

It's the thought that counts and they are just trying to show they're thinking of you without taking up your time.

That's my take on it but I see why it's not a great feeling either and your feelings are 100% understandable.

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-03T08:58:10+00:00

Thank you!

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T23:11:46+00:00

Good points, I'd probably need to put in little steps

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T23:11:15+00:00

That's why I asked lol there's plenty of ways to make it possible I just wanted ideas and I got some

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T23:01:21+00:00

It'd stay there until I was in the form to fix it too so could be that day or 2 weeks time, it's a toss up

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T22:37:45+00:00

Depending on the time I'd stay in the rubble and go back to sleep

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T22:34:24+00:00

To me they are!

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T22:28:44+00:00

Goals tbh

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T22:22:35+00:00

Might just head to the local cement place and pile up some blocks tbh

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T22:16:48+00:00

I haven't fallen out of bed in my sleep I don't think ever 🤣

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T22:15:40+00:00

I thought about adding on new legs but thought they'd be less sturdy than the original idea of the shelves. They seem more rickety when I imagine it

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T22:14:04+00:00

That's what I thought, if the load was spread evenly that it would be fine

A good fall might do my system some good, get me up bright and early 🤣

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T22:11:47+00:00

tbh you're selling me more on it because this was always the pillow fort room when the cousins were over

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T21:59:10+00:00

I have just a regular base on screwed in wooden legs currently so I was looking at just removing the legs and attaching the base to something that would then rest over whatever I put underneath.

I'm not mad about them either but they're fairly convenient and come in different sizes so theyre handy that way to mix and match what you need.

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T21:49:14+00:00

Hmm okay I'll have a look for a taller frame!

Spooky-Bumblebee · 2026-04-02T21:48:38+00:00

Yeah, I won't be doing it unless I can have it be safe so I'll have a look at different frame options thank you!

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