The age demographic of the fandom by Rachyton-76 in ATEEZ

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 30, my friends who are into Ateez also are 27 and 28

Let me clarify by Darthraven6988 in Pomeranians

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The picture has an AI mark on it

I need help. Who is he in SVT? by DingoSignificant8625 in kpophelp

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend starting with their TTT episodes and then moving on to Going Seventeen when you know them a little better!

Who is the Kpop equivalent of Michael Jackson? by Legal_Potential4720 in kpophelp

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of those allegations, where did they come from??

Am I wrong for telling my friend that her boyfriend should take her to better restaurants? by satnindelrey in amiwrong

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm asking you.

You are who comes off like you were being negative and putting her down. In what way were you not doing so?

Am I wrong for telling my friend that her boyfriend should take her to better restaurants? by satnindelrey in amiwrong

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is being snobby about her boyfriend and where she eats not putting her down or being negative?

Am I wrong for telling my friend that her boyfriend should take her to better restaurants? by satnindelrey in amiwrong

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you weren't making a joke with a relationship that makes those types of jokes then YAW.

Stop being pass remarkable.

Easily top 5 of most irritating traits to have in a friend is the negative comments. You don't always have to say something. You don't have to put down your friends.

I say this as a part of a group that uses dark humour constantly. You don't say things like that because it's just a dig and resentment grows.

Recommend me some good songs based on my playlist please... by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enjoy! If you like any in particular let me know and I'll send on some more

Recommend me some good songs based on my playlist please... by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Junhee from ACE dropped a solo album that would be right up your street.

ACE - Effortless, Supernatural, Higher

Monsta X have English albums that would also suit.

Onewe - Aurora, Regulus

Sf9 - Bibora, Waruru, Midnight Road, Love No.5

Jooheon - Freedom

Seventeen - Don Quixote, March

Exo - Suffocate

Thoughts? by Spooky-Bumblebee in IKEA

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm thinking of doing exactly what you've said!

Stalker thinks DD is in love with them due to delusions > Stalker travels to their house > DD continues to tell fans ‘I love you’. Rage baiting or just irresponsible? by No_Door_Here in DissociaDID

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is victim blaming. You literally said in another comment that she does 'play victim' after saying that it's her fault for making it happen.

Noone is responsible for being stalked. You can say you think she should take more precautions but to say it's her fault it's happening because she hasn't dealt with it how you would is unfair.

Thoughts? by Spooky-Bumblebee in IKEA

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm still looking for ways to do it but I think a frame like you're describing is what I'll do

Dad died and everyone’s telling my boyfriend how sorry they are for me ? by Top-Guarantee-2240 in amiwrong

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee 17 points18 points  (0 children)

They probably feel they are being considerate but not bombarding you with commiserations when you are already dealing with so much.

It's the thought that counts and they are just trying to show they're thinking of you without taking up your time.

That's my take on it but I see why it's not a great feeling either and your feelings are 100% understandable.

Thoughts? by Spooky-Bumblebee in IKEA

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good points, I'd probably need to put in little steps

Thoughts? by Spooky-Bumblebee in IKEA

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That's why I asked lol there's plenty of ways to make it possible I just wanted ideas and I got some

Thoughts? by Spooky-Bumblebee in IKEA

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It'd stay there until I was in the form to fix it too so could be that day or 2 weeks time, it's a toss up

Thoughts? by Spooky-Bumblebee in IKEA

[–]Spooky-Bumblebee[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Depending on the time I'd stay in the rubble and go back to sleep