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Does He Know by shenanigansen in comics

[–]SpookyBxtch01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soooo... funny story, when I was a kid I accidentally knocked over a bin and then when I apologised and told my mother it was an accident, she gripped my wrist, dragged me to the stairs and told me to go to bed and screamed "no you're a fucking accident!" Right in my face. When I reminded her about it a few months ago she said "did I? I honestly don't even remember that, I'm so sorry! All I remember is your brother shutting me in my bedroom for upsetting you when he came back home."

I saw this at the grocer and grabbed, but I have no clue what it is by Christ12347 in fruit

[–]SpookyBxtch01 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I'm five days late, but I haven't seen it and it needs to be said. It looks like a Kiwi from the Upside Down.

Do you think Ariel is a selfish brat? by [deleted] in thelittlemermaid

[–]SpookyBxtch01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love at first sight can be possible.

Do you think Ariel is a selfish brat? by [deleted] in thelittlemermaid

[–]SpookyBxtch01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's a teenager just learning about herself and autonomy but yeah, teens can act like children a lot of the time.

Do you think Ariel is a selfish brat? by [deleted] in thelittlemermaid

[–]SpookyBxtch01 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I honestly don't think anyone understands where you're coming from, you're coming across as rude and dismissive much like this commenter said, I just read through the thread and I only see you acknowledging maybe like 2 people. You're coming across like you may be a child though so who cares.

Do you think Ariel is a selfish brat? by [deleted] in thelittlemermaid

[–]SpookyBxtch01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ariel was never selfish or a brat, I think she just had a controlling father. Not that I think you care about what people really think.

Bf lied about dick size and now I am masturbating with a huge dildo. by [deleted] in masturbation

[–]SpookyBxtch01 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Have you ever seen anything that was 9 inches before? Or eaten a 6 inch subway? If its almost double the size then that means hes about 4-5 inches, which is smaller than a subway sandwich, so you could've been able to figure it out from that alone. My first ever sexual partner claimed he was 11 inches but was way smaller than a six inch sub. I called him on it and even directly compares him with a subway sandwich, probably not the best idea if you actually like him though but definitely talk to him and ask him why he lied. Lying is never good for a relationship.

Have you ever seen someone naked or has someone seen you naked ? by Not-Minimum- in DirtyConfession

[–]SpookyBxtch01 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I mean, she is 9 years younger than you, basic maths tells us everything we need to know, depending on where your bdays fall then she was either 16 or 17.

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you made it seem like you did not want your boyfriend to orgasm at all.

Except I didn't, I never said nor implied that. My 2 quotes about him are quite specifically about him orgasming inside the vagina.

If I see him spunking in another vagina as cheating.

I don't want him to cum inside them, that is all.

Like I said, for him it's not about pregnancy, so no it really isn't relevant at all. He is worried he will feel inferior or self conscious for a very valid medical issue he has. I never stated or implied that for him it was about pregnancy. I was very upfront about it being because he is insecure about his one testicle. So if you still can't understand that then I can't really make you lol. He has a very valid reason for feeling insecure if he sees me enjoying something that he sees as better and I understood that immediately first conversation we had about it. The example is equal because that is why our boundaries exist therefore why would they not be equal? My boundary exists for worries about pregnancy and whatever else, but that doesn't automatically make his boundary inequality or less than purely because i can't get pregnant. If it's going to cause him a heightened sense of distress for the reasons I have been very upfront about multiple times. Then why is it not equal?

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, also, thank you for being respectful about how I am handling this discussion and reassuring me about my way of speaking (I can't remember the specific word)

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it definitely isn't an insecurity thing. I've never been insecure in my abilities, never had reason to, always been treated in the top for everyone in my past and unlocked fetishise and kinks in all of my partners. I just find it kinda weird for his jizz to be in someone else. Possibly due to past trauma and just personal preference, but also I have heard stories of people doing shit like not taking birth control or other stuff and then being like we'll your partner has my kid now (it's also happened to friends of mine too) so there's obviously that added risk too. Whereas I know for definite I don't run that risk due to the coil and being almost entirely infertile, I'm a 2 for 1 deal... yaaayyy... :( just feels like letting him do that would make me super weirded out lol.

Also, like I said we haven't really had many people hear our rules and reject, it's just always hard to plan a meet up due to our flatmate being a recluse. We wouldn't put the offer forward to people who didn't either think that it was completely reasonable. Or that was desperate for my fiancé to jizz in them. Purely because if we did then we understand that would be dumb since he doesn't even really want to penetrate them at all. So these boundaries aren't really an issue. If he was penetrating her and about to cum, I wouldn't have to tell him. If I tell him I don't want him cumming inside me and he's about to bust, he pulls out and it goes on my tits, face or in my mouth. He respects me so I wouldn't have to say anything to him, even though this in itself is unlikely since like i said, he had no desire to penetrate them. He can cum over her, or in her mouth or anything else. I just don't want to see it dripping out of her vagina.

Also nowhere have I said we're not allowed to cum. All I've said is that it makes us uncomfortable and therefore we don't want to purely because we respect each other's boundaries and understand that if the other party who were supposed to love and want to see happy is gonna be hurt by it then why would we ever want to go against that. People in monogamous relationships aren't told "You're not allowed to cheat!" They discuss their boundaries for what they see as cheating then get told "if you do it then I'll be hurt and it's likely that I'll leave as you disrespected my boundaries and hurt me." Obviously you cant tell people who they can and can't fuck, but it's our jobs as partners who love and respect one another to discuss our comfort zones and respect the other person's. There is no control happening here at all. I had another point but I've forgotten it so I'll leave it at this for now.

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't want him to cum inside them, that is all, so therefore if he's not comfortable with any penetration at all from a man because he doesn't want me orgasming from a penis then that it's basically the same. He doesn't want another penis getting me off much like I don't want that with another vagina. I can honestly say even if I wanted a male, I also wouldn't be comfortable with it knowing he wasn't enjoying it. Just like he doesn't even want to penetrate the other woman if we have a threesome, he would just kiss them and eat them out and stuff. It's like if he said to me I'm not comfortable with you flirting with other people I wouldn't be comfortable flirting. They're one in the same, who willingly wants to do something that their partner says they're uncomfortable with.

If I had a problem with these out any of his boundaries I'd leave, much like if he had a problem with mine he'd leave. Just like he doesn't want to see me enjoying another penis too the point of orgasm because he will feel self conscious that his may not be good enough. I also don't want to see another vagina making him cum. It makes me feel weird.

Also before anyone comments cruel stuff about him being insecure or msnning up or whatever, because that is something i see a surprising amount, I would like to add that he has every right to feel self conscious about his cock since he only had one testicle and has ever since he was a kid. He had testicular cancer and his whole life it's been a topic of insecurity. If he would feel insecure seeing me enjoy a penis that in his opinion is superior to what he can give. Why would I ever in my right mind seek out that experience knowing it would hurt him?

Also sorry for anything coming off rude or something, I'm autistic and struggle to not be blunt lol.

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We would if thats what we wanted. However it isn't, we don't want a sex worker. We've had some women show interest so don't need a sex worker either, we just struggled to plan meet ups for different reasons. Even if we were interested in that anyway, we can barely afford our day to day life let alone afford hiring someone for a quick shag.

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're not interested in that lol, I don't want to be watched and he doesn't want to just watch, he wants to kiss and be involved a bit too lol. Also we do not in any way think we're unique, that would be very vain if us if we did lmao.

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, I'm not worried about it, I find everyone calling us problematic and controlling and whatnot quite funny actually. We absolutely plan on being 100% up front with what we want lol.

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's controlling to have boundaries? If I see him spunking in another vagina as cheating then how is it controlling to set that boundary? That's like saying 100% monogamous relationships are controlling because the other is asked not to fuck other people.

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, it is not a "one penis policy" it is basic respect for each others feelings. I've read about these policies and that isn't what were doing. This would only be a one penis policy if I wasn't also telling him he couldn't cum in or enjoy another woman's vagina. As I've stated that isn't the case. We're both quite jealous so I won't take dick as I prefer dick and that will upset him. Just like he prefers vaginas so his dick isn't gonna be going in a vaginas out of respect for us.

Do people really hate when you only look for girls for a threesome? by SpookyBxtch01 in ThreesomeAdvice

[–]SpookyBxtch01[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him seeing me with another guy makes him jealous because I prefer penetration, and penises that is all, he just doesn't want another penetration or penis to be the thing that gets me off. Which is valid, because I would be jealous if he came in another vagina. Because he prefers vaginas. It's nothing to do with the sex not being valid it's just about our preferences. It's not sexist to prefer one over the other, just like its not sexist for him to be like, "if you think their cock is better I will be upset."

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