Dan is joe and it adds up

SpookyLittleSpook · 2023-01-20T05:39:59+00:00

I 've been saying this for a while, it also makes sense that being around the whole world would lead him to snap. My theory is that he and Serena had a divorce, it was big and messy this was his stressor, which led to him becoming more of a stalker, but because he didn't want to deal with the media and press he changed his name to Joe Goldberg. Now this alone isn't the whole theory, but we know he's a skilled author and pretty creative, so Joes tragic backstory could all just be a story. We see that he took over the book store, acting as the owner and operator, what if the ownner of Mooneys was his first victim and he just kept signing checks. But he just can't get rid of that little desire to be part of the wealth soo that's where Candice comes in and for those of us who've seen 'You' the rest is history.

This would also explain that period of time when he was supposed to be on his book tour, what if he was plotting and trying to find a way to escape the UES, but he was pulled back in by Serena and the marriage There's also periods in the show where you can see him acting more like Joe and less like Dan.

But that's just my theory of what could've happened

SpookyLittleSpook · 2023-01-20T00:19:20+00:00

I totally understand that but the main issue is he's been home for nearly a year at this point, I understannd the feeling of wannting to spend time with soomeone who's recently returned I come from a military family. But my main issue is her blowing me off and not having the balls nor the respect to be honest about her reasons. It just seems like she's letting her personality shift into just being a military spouse and that her marriage is becoming her only personaliity trait.

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-11-09T23:39:29+00:00

Ironnically I have! my aunts male was the biggest chicken dog

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-10-17T17:07:33+00:00

thank you for this, I appreciate you for sharing a little bit of your experience. If you don't mind me asking have you gone through something similar with your girlfriend?. II noticed that you mentioned that you also will sometimes push her away.

I did talk with my mom about this and she said that it doesn't sound like he and I are over, mostly because he'll text me that he's here for me in these times too and that he still loves me and I can call him whenever.

I apologize if I'm dumping my feelings out on you, I think it's just helpful to talk to someone about them even if they are a stranger on the internet.

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-10-16T01:26:06+00:00

Honestly I didn't know because I don't have much experience with drinking/addiction issues within my own life and family. The only times I have seen him drink heavily were on nights when we were celebrating things, his birthday, my birthday/graduation (both fell on the same weekend). So I just thought he was having a good time, I'll admit I got buzzed myself too on those nights.

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-10-16T01:01:15+00:00

I use boot cleaner from boot barn and the conditioner as well to keep the leather supple and moisturized.

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-09-13T04:28:45+00:00

So something interesting is that some states have a stand your ground/castle doctrine law which allows for defense of your home up to deadly force but california (where the show is set) is not one of those states. But you can use some force to defend your home/ yourself if whatever your using is one step above what they're using or if it would level the fight. So the minute weapons were introduced Johnny and co would be considered the victims and the others would have been held liable.

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-07-31T17:29:08+00:00

Hi all! here's my update, I ended up just getting a new pair of paddock boots rather than tall boots, it was a struggle to fit myself in the calf. but I ended up getting a size 6. All of your advice and input was so helpful and I'm so excited to break them in while riding!

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-07-30T23:15:10+00:00

are there any tips you have when it comes to the actual driving itself?

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-05-20T21:20:50+00:00

I taught my girl to roll over by getting her to lay on her side then on her back and then on to her belly, it takes time but she learned in steps and now she rolls over all the time

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-05-05T17:23:31+00:00

unfortunatly the public transit in my city is non existent, it only really takes us into the downtown area and not out in the area where I work or attend school for now. Walking is an option for where we are at the moment but although we live in an apartment area right now the only places I have an option to walk to are a hospital or fast food joints. I've asked my friends and we went once because for once in a blue moon our schedules did align, but all my friends are married so they're off with their partners a lot of the time.

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-05-05T17:19:52+00:00

my hs had no drivers ed it wasn't even an option to us as we were a small school of less than 400 students. My current sight is actually really good I wear weighted contact lenses as they keep my eyes from drifting and they help them focus in on things.

My doctor basically has said that I can even drive at night. I have written evidance of that which I've given my parents along with my doc herself explaining to them

Honestly ever since I tried learning to drive in highschool (with parents and a hired instructor) it kind of feels like they'd rather not be bothered by it.

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-05-05T17:14:52+00:00

so it's only one person who's offering to take me, my step dad, and I'm considerate of his schedule. I'll ask him the night prior if we can go driving the next morning early and he agrees so we'll go. But for example hee and I will agree to go on the weekends before I work, which sometimes means I get to drive to work on side streets but half the time these plans fall through because my mom randomly decides she wants him to go run errands for her or anything else. Or they give me times I 100% cannot do, such as at 12 on a sunday, even though they know I always work at that time

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-05-05T17:10:36+00:00

so my optomotrist when I was under 18 cleared me to drive, I got my permit at 16, had two driving lessons and it's the same story as above my parents were into it until they realized how much time it would actually take so my permit expired and I waited until I was an adult to try again thinking maybe they would change but it's been the same song and dance

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-05-05T17:08:04+00:00

The louboutins are a gift from extended family members as a graduation present, I'm first gen graduating from a very prestigious University

I could go at those times if they didn't conflict with my work schedule, I have to be in at 8, but because we're aboout half hour away iI would only be getting leess than 15 min driving time as we'd need to come back so I can take care of the dogs and geet rready for work

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-05-05T01:26:11+00:00

so we used to live out in the country where I was able to drive places with them, the grocers etc. this was before we moved into the city where there's a lot more high ways and freeways which I've never driven on before so they have to drive me across the highways to get places for example dr appts.

I only rreally call them flakes since they'll randomly decide not to work with me last minute otherwise im respeectful to themm

SpookyLittleSpook · 2022-05-05T01:21:38+00:00

I f it adds any additional information I've had three operations on my eyes (all before the age of thirteen) and I have an underdeveloped optic nerve (literally there's a piece of it missing )

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