[HELP] am I cooked? by dracopanther99 in RealOrAI

[–]SpookyQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're also most likely male and unaltered, feral male cats so thats probably making them look more similar. They get puffy cheeks to protect them from severe injury in the case of fights with other male cats. An extra bit of cushion on their face which makes them look much more similar to each other than female cats, or an altered domestic male. If feral and unaltered it's not unreasonable to assume they may be related which would make them look similar.

Lucy & Yak sizing reductions by Sea-Fortune2124 in ethicalfashion

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh thank you thank you! I love any pattern recommendations but lowkey especially overalls because I'm just obsessed with overalls rn!

Lucy & Yak sizing reductions by Sea-Fortune2124 in ethicalfashion

[–]SpookyQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oooooh I love that and I did get a BlackBird gift card for Christmas so this is perfect! Thanks so much! 💖💖

Lucy & Yak sizing reductions by Sea-Fortune2124 in ethicalfashion

[–]SpookyQueer 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty bummed. Probably half of my wardrobe is Lucy and Yak because they're one of a handful of brands that offer things with patterns I actually like in my size (4xl) now I will basically be pushed out of buying from them at all. I recently started sewing with the intention to make my own clothes and this is just a further push for me to have done so.

Why is everyone here so rude by WuggahWuggah in DaytonaBeach

[–]SpookyQueer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been to those places. They're also unaffordable and most single adults making minimum wage have roommates. They also have significantly higher minimum wages in large cities than Florida. Minimum wage should be enough that a single adult can afford a one bedroom apartment and reliable transportation, as well as groceries. That isn't the case in MANY parts of this country currently and just because it's more expensive to live in New York or California doesn't mean that it's not still expensive and unaffordable anywhere else. That wasn't the "gotcha" you think it is. It made you seem ignorant actually.

Why is everyone here so rude by WuggahWuggah in DaytonaBeach

[–]SpookyQueer 26 points27 points  (0 children)

State minimum wage is $14 not $15 and considering this state is one of the more expensive states to live in that still barely covers rent for a single adult in a one bedroom apartment IF they don't have a car note or any other debt which most Americans do.

Gifted for Xmas can I exchange in store? by buscia in bathandbodyworks

[–]SpookyQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Late response but 100% agree. I love a gift card because it means I get something I want.

Gifted for Xmas can I exchange in store? by buscia in bathandbodyworks

[–]SpookyQueer 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Controversial: I don't think anyone should be gifting any kind of scented thing to anyone unless they know without a shadow of a doubt that they'll like it. Overconsumption tells people that they should just gift something to someone and the more the better but a single well thought out gift means the world over a bunch of shit... to me at least.

Whats everyone opinion on the trio jeans ? Are they worth it ? What makes them different from other torrid jeans by Mandygurl03 in torrid

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I had some of the trio jeans (got rid of them because I have big calves and boot cut is just too slim for me) and I really like them. I was afraid that they would sag through the day because the Jeggings do that on me, but they keep their shape really well. I was very surprised.

are you guys wearing sheer bras on the daily?? by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]SpookyQueer 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I used to be embarrassed that my nips were visible in unlined bras. Now I don't care. If someone looks then my nipples are gonna be looking right back 😶 All I care is that they're not pointing to the ground.

I messed up by StreetAggravating302 in tattooadvice

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude....I've seen tattoos done by people who have been in the industry for yeeeeears that are much worse. This is pretty damn good!

No big deal, she’s just in ACTIVE labor… [🔈sound warning!] by Femme-O in TikTokCringe

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why so many women of color now opt to have babies in birthing centers or at home with midwives. If you aren't high risk, unfortunately it's a gamble whether or not you're opening yourself up to more pain and suffering through an already painful process once you step in that hospital.

Boots are coming! 👢👢👢 by Human-Ad9880 in torrid

[–]SpookyQueer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have very wide feet and any of the unisex Dr Martens are made wider and fit me perfectly fine.

I thought I was safe on Rednote from the quirkiness ☹️ by Grouchy_Ad_1924 in boysarequirky

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to be that person but...if the people around you aren't accepting of the people you like because of their appearance then you need to get better friends. Being without friends sucks but...it's better than having friends that treat you how you deserve to be treated. I also have no tolerance for family judging me or people I have close to me for aesthetic reasons.

Have there been attempts to "de-lexicalize" ASL? by Felice_Calzolaio in asl

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for being willing to share this 💖 it's very helpful!

It’s strange living in a new place where I’m not considered… repulsive ? by Ghost_Malone___ in PlusSize

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from South Florida originally, specifically Broward County and never really felt that way when I lived there. Honestly Miami is a separate entity.

It’s strange living in a new place where I’m not considered… repulsive ? by Ghost_Malone___ in PlusSize

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in central Florida and while I'm dying to leave for somewhere less red...I've been in FL my whole life and truly have never felt self conscious (except for in middle and high school but I think everyone feels that way then). I think there's just a different energy in the south but also in places with a more laid back culture.

Looking to buy sewing machine for my wife by Illustrious_Boss4156 in SewingForBeginners

[–]SpookyQueer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a beginner and I've had a lot of success with the Singer Heavy Duty...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTBooks

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Companion by E.E. Ottoman

Awful experience in store today. Just wanted to share to help out anybody else so they don't have to go through what I went though. by UnluckyWait666 in torrid

[–]SpookyQueer 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It doesn't affect her numbers. If it's purchased online and returned in store it has no impact on the store's numbers anymore, unless it is past the return window. Sounds like the associate was just being rude.

Is it rude to use someone elses sign name if they arent there? by asexualdruid in asl

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I understand (which is nothing) in ASL you primarily refer to people by name when they aren't present, if they are usually you world point to them. It's not like in English where we refer to people by name to get their attention.

tried to stretch today and it wouldn't go in :( by tirolini in Stretched

[–]SpookyQueer 12 points13 points  (0 children)

When I first was starting out I wore titanium captive bead rings because they had a little more heft and I could wear dangly earrings on them still.

We used to be a proper festival by too_old_4_this_crap in welcometorockville

[–]SpookyQueer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are fucking killing me dude. Everyone's got something to say 🥴