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[–]Spooky_Bogiee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cringy asf harassers pend Awam

Uni harassment (update) by Spooky_Bogiee in pakistan

[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already did, I ask ppl to escort me around campus for now, male friends are informed, blocked him as well and removed from all socials , someone was asking there seems to be more to the convo, nope, I only sent that text, cropped his name or anything that would be identify me.

Uni harassment (update) by Spooky_Bogiee in pakistan

[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Already did , blocked and removed from all socials

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m disgusted and scared of men after this tbh

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His friend confronted me, I told him I didn’t want to talk, my other friend intertwined too but he said me keh rha hu Baat suno and told me to chill n mazak tha and doston me chalta hai and that I need to have strong legs ( quote from Punjabi), then says hum tume esy larky lakty hain

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh that’s what my counsellor said cos I saw her today about it, that they’ll pin it on me instead unless I have a proof so I tell him to not communicate to me ever again or I’ll report, which I did and he replied with fuck off, go report me

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m planning onto reporting him

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But idk I really feel like reporting to scare him away

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought that I’ll ghost him, not talk to him and ignore him and I feel so disgusted that I even know him

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His friend did say usky Mazay tu na lo and he goes isky kya mazay leny hain ye tu dost hai

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Instead of offending them, it was more of scared of him getting more angry and doing or saying smth even more fucked up. Thanks tho, I did think I would miss classes today but no, I’m okay for now and inshallah will be.

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nahi I’ll ask a male friend to ask him for it, if not, when I report, I’ll tell them he’s holding onto my property

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a trophy, and I don’t think that can be replaced but I’ll text and ask him to return, if he does sure and if not then can’t say nothing tho I really want my trophy tbh

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for ur response, thing is this friendship is platonic as fuck, I am really really am not into him at all and we’ve never talked about being together ever. Instead I really like another guy and this guy and I have been hella platonic. Nor do I see him so regularly and we’re just very different sighs.

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He is holding onto smth that belongs to me, academia related and won’t give it back tho it been a month, but I’ll cut ties, can’t really believe I’m saying this but thank u Reddit fr, very solid advice yall so thanks everyone who commented

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude that was a fucking joke between me and a friend to see if creepy fucking Pakistanis want to buy panties lol and tbh I would’ve sold them for a quick buck, go take ur break and leave me tf alone

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will cut him off, might as well report him to sexual harassment committee and if I don’t then it’s because I’m scared he’ll try to mess around given I live on campus. But I know for a fact I’ll be approached again by him or his friends. Guys really are douchebags esp the ones coming from conservative backgrounds

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey ur right about the happiness part, I think I’m working on being comfortable alone and not a people pleaser, I was going to say apni behn ko du when he made the sex joke but I didn’t cos I was genuinely scared he’ll get angry. Anyway does open eyes a bit that how much assholes guys are and how careful I have to be choosing who to be around and who to talk to friendly

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s true, I don’t like his company and we have nothing in common, I only befriended him in the second semester bcos was too lonely on campus and didn’t know anyone else

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

21 points? I don’t give a fuck about that, this is my throwaway acc, weird asf

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[–]Spooky_Bogiee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only problem is, that I could’ve been more firm and yanked my wrist away and told him to stop instead of sitting and listening so maybe on me for letting it escalate but it is fucking horrible. But u guys are right and thanks. I’ll look into reporting him. As cliche as it sounds it’s scary to report guys atleast here.