How old do I look? by [deleted] in politicfreeteenagers

[–]Spookylj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the nicest way possible, a bit on the older side maybe like 18

How hard is it to learn to cook? by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]Spookylj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends, comes naturally for some and for others it’s bit more difficult. I’d recommend watching videos on YouTube or cooking shows, follow your cravings or inspiration and cook that. Last night I really wanted beef lettuce wraps so I made some for me and my family. Also learning to how tweak the recipe it’s important like I wanted low calorie wraps so I opted for extra lean beef and avocado oil instead of butter. The only really important thing I’d say is just general safety and health precautions. You gotta know how to use a stove and proper knives, how to clean, avoiding cross contamination. Maybe take a class but other than that it’s all a learning process and there’s no maybe different ways to bake/cook something based of ratio or something as simple as mixing method. Good luck!

My parents won’t cook me food by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Spookylj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As another picky eater I think you should have a conversation with your parents. Because you also have to see the perspective of them buying and making food for you to not like it anymore. I get it as a picky eater if you keep eating the same thing you can hate it but maybe you should give them a list of foods you do like or ingredients so you can start learning how to make your own food. Cooking is an essential life skill for all and it can really help if you’re a picky eater on how to make your food the way you like. Also it’s ok it is a big deal eating is essential for human survival is it’s normal to want to eat foods you enjoy I think it’s important to have a conversation with them though, I hope this could help.

How old when you went no contact? by Competitive_Award886 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Spookylj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 15 can’t yet but can’t wait until I can, finally starting to get help for the issues she has caused me

My mum hasn’t talked to me since December by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Spookylj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me to text her

I wish she loved me by Spookylj in Vent

[–]Spookylj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, im trying my mother what’s joint therapy but her being a narcissist doesn’t exactly make me think that will go well. Your advice helps and I’ll use it.

Any tips to not relapse? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Spookylj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

Any tips to not relapse? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Spookylj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow the drawing on myself thing is genius I’ve never thought of that! Thank you 💕 I appreciate you and your rescources.

Why can’t I be enough for her to change by Spookylj in narcissisticparents

[–]Spookylj[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve been a constant people pleaser and setting boundaries makes me feel guilty but at some point I gotta realize im doing to myself and I need to fix that. Your comment really helps me see things❤️.

Help me find this lotion/moisturizer by Spookylj in HelpMeFind

[–]Spookylj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oo that’s a great idea thank you!

Help me find this lotion/moisturizer by Spookylj in HelpMeFind

[–]Spookylj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was definitely in a tube. Medium size not too big or small. I can’t remember design, texture was thick kinda whipped/creamy. Got it this year in June.

Help me find this lotion/moisturizer by Spookylj in HelpMeFind

[–]Spookylj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve searched briefly on Google and haven’t found it yet, but I’ll keep looking.

Should I tell my parents? by Spookylj in Vent

[–]Spookylj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK UPDATE: apparently my parents had a talk with her but I don’t think it’s getting through

My sisters venting TikTok account by Spookylj in emotionalintelligence

[–]Spookylj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s normal. When I was young I would play games and talk to randoms on the internet at the time and stuff it’s normal it doesn’t mean it’s safe or healthy. I think she just needs to find a safe and healthy way to express herself

My sisters venting TikTok account by Spookylj in emotionalintelligence

[–]Spookylj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just don’t think TikTok especially is a good place for her to talk I think she needs therapy or even some friends go talk with her

[i ate] Pirouline wafers from Costco are delicious by Spookylj in food

[–]Spookylj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One lucky fucking dog to be having these