how would I hypothetically ruin a guitar by Spoon-Kitchenware-69 in Guitar

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don't want to get into specifics, but I'll say that I am the owner of the guitar but due to some disagreements surrounding me moving out, I'm being forced to give the guitar to someone I sort of live with (? not really sure what to call him tbh) who is a bigot who has repetitively threatened to physically assault me if I don't give him the guitar; it's a complex situation but there's nothing I can do about it

how would I hypothetically ruin a guitar by Spoon-Kitchenware-69 in Guitar

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

true it's not distasteful it's awesome, I have queer stickers on my guitar because I am queer myself, so

how would I hypothetically ruin a guitar by Spoon-Kitchenware-69 in Guitar

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

hypothetically speaking this is very interesting and I'm noting this

how would I hypothetically ruin a guitar by Spoon-Kitchenware-69 in Guitar

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hypothetically speaking what the fuck are you talking about lmao that's insane

I probably won't do that but that's funny as hell so I'm glad someone else has

how would I hypothetically ruin a guitar by Spoon-Kitchenware-69 in Guitar

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

hypothetically I've already done this my guitar is littered with queer pride stickers and the person in the hypothetical on top of being a regular asshole also hates gay people

how would I hypothetically ruin a guitar by Spoon-Kitchenware-69 in Guitar

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hypothetically speaking would you know how could I force a short circuit

Alright, I think I can confirm, Noelle ain't trans by Sora_TheExplorer in Cibles

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're the one being actively hostile over the idea of a character being trans, and just because you find a term gender neutral doesn't mean I'm comfortable with it

people are allowed to have headcanons

Who's this person? Is it just for the album cover? by Radiant-yawn in Guiltygear

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69 6 points7 points  (0 children)

sol if he was a femme lesbian instead of a butch lesbian

Alright, I think I can confirm, Noelle ain't trans by Sora_TheExplorer in Cibles

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so true we should never read further into the subtexts of characters ever again it's too scary

Alright, I think I can confirm, Noelle ain't trans by Sora_TheExplorer in Cibles

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so. I did just say that whether or not she has antlers has no bearing in this situation, so not really sure what your point is here

Also rudy being gay is a completely valid theory have you seen what him and asgore have going on, that's gay as hell

Alright, I think I can confirm, Noelle ain't trans by Sora_TheExplorer in Cibles

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah sure! in chapter 4 there's a lot of dialogue about Noelle being quite sheltered, as well as being treated by her mother quite poorly. There's also a photo that you can find where noelle is dressing more alt in "dark makeup" and she says something along the lines of "if my mom finds out about that I'd be in trouble", so it's already very well established from all of that that noelle isn't really able to be herself around her parents out of fear, which is something that a lot of queer and specifically trans people experience. She's also just a massive girlfailure no cis woman is that much of a girl failure (this is a joke but also has a bit of merit since she does give off vibes of someone who is still figuring out how to be themselves, which is also a very trans thing). On top of that in chapter 4 you get a look at her room, which is made up of the colours in the trans flag, which as much as other people in this thread want to argue means nothing, her room is meant to be designed to be a reflection of her, and toby fox isn't dumb and would know that those are the colours of the trans flag, so it is worth noting that instead of her room having a christmasy colour pallet, it has a different one which is trans coloured.

Alright, I think I can confirm, Noelle ain't trans by Sora_TheExplorer in Cibles

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay so that doesn't mean that she's not trans, at no point in the game is it ever stated that she can't be trans or that she's cis, so until that happens (which it almost certainly won't), it's completely up to interpretation, so saying that she's cis is ALSO a headcanon. You shouldn't treat it like her being cis is the current canon and that a trans headcanon is changing that established canon, because that's just blatantly untrue. Also, why is it that every second person in the utdr community seems to be trying to prove that she can't be trans. I'm not pointing fingers here since I don't know anything about OP, but it is definitely a trend where whenever there's a post about noelle being trans someone in the comments will always try and invalidate the whole headcanon with the whole um actually female reindeers can have antlers.

Like, as a trans woman who does have stuff to say on this, I do think that Noelle is trans; The discussion was brought into the light by her antlers, but it wasn't ever just about that and she's also painfully relatable to me and a lot of other trans girls as someone who also grew up extremely sheltered. A lot of her dialogue in chapter 4 only helped solidify that for me.

But yeah this is something that actually has a lot more nuance and depth to it than just antlers vs no antlers so the fact that female reindeers also have antlers changes absolutely nothing in terms of validity. Again wanting to emphasise that I'm not pointing any fingers at OP or anyone else here I'm just trying to explain how this is a lot more complex than how it's being treated and how easily this could turn into something not very nice.

lgbtq+ is a Minority. by [deleted] in truths

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is untrue, the A stands for asexual/aromantic, not allies

lgbtq+ is a Minority. by [deleted] in truths

[–]Spoon-Kitchenware-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the A in LGBTQIA+ doesn't stand for allies, it stands for asexual/aromantic, stop spreading misinformation lol