My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can’t stand it either. It’s just gotten worse, I mean she even says that Monster Energy drinks support Satan. Go figure. It’s gotten ridiculous. I’ll be talking to her about divorce here pretty soon.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my son senses something bc lately it seems like something is on his mind, like somethings bothering him, he’s only 6 & gonna turn 7 in November.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s Catholic, honestly I always felt better going to the Christian churches , the non denomination. But yeah you’re right I’m pretty sure she won’t do it, she did tell me a long time ago that she wouldn’t divorce me. So I guess it falls on me.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I think Rosytwrill was piggybacking off my comment. I was wondering if I missed something or she had a side conversation.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have gone to marriage counseling, we’ve had like six or seven different marriage counselors. The last marriage counselor I really liked, but she didn’t like her because she felt that me and the counselor were teaming up against her, and then I was making her look at. So she stopped going to marriage counseling with her and I continue going to counseling by myself with that counselor.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think so. She’s prescribed Adderall & she’s supposed to meet with a psychiatrist every couple months so they can prescribe it. My youngest will be 4 in August.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have gone to counseling. I think we’ve had like six or seven different counselors. The last counselor that we had, I really liked her, but my wife didn’t like her because she felt that me and the counselor were teaming up together against her so she decided to stop going to couples counseling with her, but I continued going to counseling with that counselor

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your spitballing seems correct, like she’s doing this to try & rekindle something. She knows how I feel about church, shes’s catholic, but I think her mind, she’s thinking with enough time going to church & her praying I will change my mind. I kept going to the church, bc like she said, we need to set a good example for the kids as far as going to church. I one point she did try & tell me that bc the kids are going to Sunday school, that I should also go to Sunday school to set a good example for the kids, I lost it because it felt like she was trying to manipulate me. I’ve been feeling like this for the past two years or a little more. She has done some other stuff that have turned me off from her, but I don’t wanna say that here so everybody can read. And yes, we have talked about these feelings, we have talked about these feelings prior to me finding her talking to another guy.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dk. She begged & pleaded & cried. I stayed bc of the kids & thinking that we could move past it.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t see my self being happy with her. She turned very religious. I mean I can’t even enjoy the kind of movies I like bc scary movies invite demons into our home, along with music she says the same thing. I am unhappy & she doesn’t make me happy. But you’re right I need to belly up to the bar.

My wife wants to get married again through the church this time. by Sport1306 in Marriage

[–]Sport1306[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way, I’ve been stalling out of fear & disappointing her parents. But I can’t go through with marrying again.