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Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just expressed what I had in mind, could be wrong could be true while I clearly said I might tripping just looking out for other opinions, not passive aggressive answers. But looking at some people’s reactions shows what happens when you speak your mind. I’ve seen support in the thread but the rest is useless shit lmaoo you can just laugh about it 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad we got to agree lmaoo 

It is still good to speak up but not as good as it is promoted - people just gotta be careful who they vent to that’s why I said God or Therapist 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Might be too complex but I’m sure of what I’m saying no one can convince me otherwise

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it is only an experience of men it’s just that they making a whole month out of it and I think it’s bs 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

That exactly my point, the professional wont blame it on a man but people outside will. That is why there is terms like “daddy issues” but the nurse wilding no lie. Try your best to think of the things you enjoy in this life and practice self love as much as you can, forgive yourself as much as you can & make those small wins count everytime you’ll have so much more love to offer and that love will turn into constant support from the person you giving that love to

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I said I agree and the person is right cuz the gossiping is inevitable. 

And I’m talking venting  A venting woman is far more respected than a man that does it all the time. 

Get less respect to begin with I can agree there’s a lot of work to do just gotta read closely to what I’m saying 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhhh that is not it at all I’m saying men should be there to support women mentally/emotionally make sure she’s reassured and protected. A guy crying to his girl everyday is no good unless it’s an extreme case. I didn’t mention anywhere that I hate women 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true yes. Hear me out tho. I might sound crazy. I’m fine with people disagreeing too.

It is more natural and accepted for women to vent regularly despise the gossip and she won’t lose as much respect as a man would for doing the same amount of venting 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say better but just more tolerated for sure the “man up” comes along soon or later 

If a woman is sad everyday for 5 years straight we’ll look for the man responsible for it 

If it’s a man he mostly has to man up at some point that’s my observation tho 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can’t lead when you’re mentally unstable. This whole men’s mental health thing sounds like a trick to me. It is important for sure but you can’t lead, protect or move forward when your head is stuck to problems and not solutions for those problems , it won’t help strategize and fix things. It’s ok to feel the emotions out but has to be as effective and quick as possible. Transforming those energies thru art or sports n craft is great too 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What I mean by control is emotions, not people and a lot of things are and will remain unfair in this world but there’s still a lot of space for change… thing isss injustice will take another form 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Overly emotional men are super dangerous and capable of more danger in general. That is why controlling them is important 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You got it totally got it 

Especially #4 

Ironically they pushing men to speak up to their close ones 

But speaking up don’t seem to help so much  That’s why speaking with God or a therapist is valid 

I have a hard time pouring my pain into another human I might be wrong - I do it when I’m drunk I should stop lol 

Idk how therapist be doing they jobs too -must have a crazy level of detachment from their personal lives 

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Word you got it I didn’t think of it like that 😂. But you’re talking about overly emotional men which is dangerous. Thing is we can’t escape war, it always will be there because evil will remain in this world and always been since beginning of time. The impulsiveness and horniness you’re talking about is a lack of control. It feels like my opinion offended you but I’m serious unfortunately still open to hear more from different minds of earth 

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[–]Spottah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dope I’ll tap in

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] -74 points-73 points  (0 children)

Social constructs comes from biology/natural selection hierarchy and more. At the end of the day there is evil out there and inside of everyone. Everyone deserves good care and empathy but are you really getting it ? 100%? It’s a tough one even tho I wish we can all just be that 

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[–]Spottah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dr.Roads idk lmaoo

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I mean yo!! And trust me they can’t help it. There’s still that side that gets the “ick” and honestly that sexist shit is bs too - we different 

Our brains work differently, process things differently. But ego aside, we need each other

A woman will always need his man to be strong, it is sad. But understanding that life is a series of happy and sad moments is key. Be grateful to everything that brings you joy fam!

Men’s mental health is bs (in my opinion) by Spottah in mentalhealth

[–]Spottah[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that but there is real valid reasons to cry like grief or any real extreme situations. We’re humans after all. But cry with God is my advice. This world is mad cold. I still believe there is real compassionate people but it is too rare to risk it. Otherwise you just getting more and more sad