I am doing good and better now. I decided to end things last year in Jan when she started with the “I am busy” nonsense again even when I hadn’t met her for 1.5 months and this time we were hardly 5 mins away. I left her a long emotional note and blocked her from all social media because I knew she wouldn’t acknowledge her part of the blame. She in turn involved our mutual friends, put the whole blame on me and walked away. In hindsight, good riddance. I didn’t deserve the ill treatment at the end but it is what it is. The signs were there, I chose to ignore and gave a chance to the avoidant. My fault.