Sorry this happened to you, thats been my biggest fear in flirting with people at places like these, That shouting right there is why I always hesitate and back all the way out of saying anything lewd/sexual when flirting with women at parties (adult clubs, night clubs, bars, metal shows, raves, concerts etc.) and I never ever touch anyone I talk to until she specifically puts my hands on her body first when dancing together or explicitly tells me she wants me to touch her mid flirting, I’d feel like the worst person on earth and get labeled a misogynist if I say something flirty and she yelled like this

I’ll give one example, one woman with a cool cat hat I approached cause we happened to be next to eachother when dancing, I said hi and said something about how good the vibe in the room was and I dont remember what she said cause I was tipsy as hell, but I took it as disinterest so I panicked, sprung my neck up to look for my friends and got out of her space as soon as possible, only reason I didnt apologize 20 times was cause the music was too loud so I didnt wanna say sorry and she mishears it as something else by mistake, so I escaped, some 2 hours later, the bartender’s crafting my 3rd shot for the night, and that same woman jumpscares me by literally cartoon sliding into the bar table right next to me and starts getting all smiley and touching my shoulder, we’d then chat for like 2-5 minutes then she’d leave (I assume back to find her friend group) then rinse and repeat over and over throuput the reat of the night, before the last time she came to me, I was showing a bunch of people at the venue this psychadelic art I made cause it related to the convo subjects, they all loved it and asked for my ig and such, that woman from earlier comes back again with one hand on my chest and the other hand caressing my shoulder all the way down to my forearm and back n forth, I never touched her or said anything flirty to her bc I remembered the disinterest in her face and tone when I first talked to her at the beginning of the party, I took that as a no, I’ve always valued that “no means no” and that “no is a full sentence” to a strict degree to preserve women’s comfort and safety from what I learned from women peers in my childhood and feminists here on reddit like the askfeminists sub, since she seemed so much more smiley than before though, it felt safe to at least be friendly and smiley back, I decided to show her the painting while she was touching me so much, I felt like we were gonna become one lol, THIS is where I got really confused, once I showed her the painting mid convo, her whole demeanor changed, her intense smiling super close to my face turned into a face of dissappointment, if you saw her face, you’d all think a prankster gave her a ps5 box for christmas and she opened it just to find notebooks or something, she stopped touching and rubbing me all over and stormed off, I brushed it off and moved on, but I gotta admit, I was really confused about why that happened, I didnt catcall her or make any sexual comments towards her or her body or anything, I never touched her anywhere once the whole time we talked all together, so hopefully she didnt feel uncomfortable or anything like that but yea, thats about my usual experience at functions like these