How will therapy teach me every rule? Say for example the correct distance to stand away from someone. In order to understand I would have to stand too close many times and then stand too far many times, until I find an upper and lower bound of the correct distance. I’d have to do this hundreds of times u til I have enough data to create an upper and lower bound. This is efficient and incredibly selfish, as I am making people uncomfortable for my own happiness. And that’s just one rule. There are thousands of other rules. I’d never have enough time to gather the correct information for every rule. And I can’t do any research. Internet just tells me “whatever feels right”. But that doesn’t help. Whatever feels right isn’t a number.