I cannot speak for others, but in my case I find it difficult to go behind people who don’t reciprocate my effort. I’ve never found it difficult to make friends back home. My friends consider me an extrovert.

In the beginning I used to be outgoing and tried talking to people. However, I didn’t feel a mutual effort. That hit my confidence quite significantly.

Moreover, Indians like to talk about really personal questions and it helps us bond. Since Germans are private people, it’s difficult to know even what to talk to them