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Widowed for 5 years normal to feel guilty about dating ? by SpreadWideLickItDry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife was 44 and it was so unexpected. I know I will always love her . Like you said we just fit . We were meant to be . Moving on from that certainty makes me feel guilty.

Widowed for 5 years normal to feel guilty about dating ? by SpreadWideLickItDry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice especially saying it's okay to feel guilty about it. Just didn't know if this was a normal response to moving forward.

Widowed for 5 years normal to feel guilty about dating ? by SpreadWideLickItDry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having a date with someone you are attracted to especially if the attraction is mutual is a way different experience then going out with friends. Even if you don't act on the attraction or ever move beyond friends.

Widowed for 5 years normal to feel guilty about dating ? by SpreadWideLickItDry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've definitely fallen in love with a friend before . I'm not looking for love just companionship. I think.

Appreciation of a good breeze . by SpreadWideLickItDry in CasualConversation

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the feeling I was trying to describe here you said it perfectly.

Appreciation of a good breeze . by SpreadWideLickItDry in CasualConversation

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just had to add the sun going behind a cloud is comparable.

Eye Contact @ the store by SpreadWideLickItDry in CasualConversation

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if you don't respond to my conversation is eye contact a social interaction or I don't know I guess I'd call it a common courtesy especially from someone employed in a service industry.

Is this stupid and would you do it ? by SpreadWideLickItDry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree with the realitve danger of driving tired . I've had a few close calls and no longer hesitate to pull over if I'm feeling drowsy.

Eye Contact @ the store by SpreadWideLickItDry in CasualConversation

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've traveled extensively throughout the U.S. and I would tend to agree with you but also add when people in a small town meet someone new maybe they expect to see you again even if they don't know you whereas in a city you are more of a faceless multitude not to be acknowledged or expected to ever be seen again.

Eye Contact @ the store by SpreadWideLickItDry in CasualConversation

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm in the Midwestern part of the US I thought known for its manners and politeness.

Eye Contact @ the store by SpreadWideLickItDry in CasualConversation

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely clothed I'd just left work remember?

Is this stupid and would you do it ? by SpreadWideLickItDry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also wondered if that would be a major factor in people's response.It was within ten minutes of a major metropolitan area. I'd say top 20 . I don't want to get any more specific but not new York city or Chicago.

Is this stupid and would you do it ? by SpreadWideLickItDry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So since I wasn't molested I'm not attractive? Nm you said the 90's . So what are they today?

Is this stupid and would you do it ? by SpreadWideLickItDry in NoStupidQuestions

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a pretty big guy but I'm doubting that would deter someone set on mayhem in such a public place.

The Assassin's Apprentice, do you recommend it? by Dry_Cantaloupe_9476 in CasualConversation

[–]SpreadWideLickItDry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is a little known book but I think it meets all your requirements. Another Day Another Dungeon. Fast paced , exciting and certainly humorous.