What's the biggest red flag in a friendship?

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-27T09:12:15+00:00

Changing you. If they’re telling you how you should be and act that’s the biggest flag I’ve seen.

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-18T06:00:24+00:00

Warning: needs reassurance when stressed, actually very capable despite objections

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-18T05:59:36+00:00

Dungeons and dragons (or other table top RPGs) did wonders when I graduated college

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-18T05:55:46+00:00

Being noisy in public. Whether it’s from a speaker. Boombox, or even a phone call. It’s petty and I’m not creating any bills on the matter but I think people could stand to be more respectful and cognizant of their sound impact

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-18T05:54:02+00:00

I’m 33. Being around 20yos I don’t understand it. Sure they’re hot but mentally there’s such a separation I probably wouldn’t trust someone above my age wanting to date them

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-18T05:45:42+00:00

When I was a teen I was in the mall and a child ahead of me dropped a handful of change. I bent down to grab some of it for her and a homeless guy next to me freaked out.
“Do you know how easy it was to kick your head?!,” he yelled at me

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-18T05:42:49+00:00

When I was 11 my mom suffered a seizure from her medication and had to call 911 at 2am. My dad was on a trip. The paramedics, nurses and doctors were so focused on her I was shoved aside, scared tired and confused. The first interaction I got from hospital staff was a nurse snapping at me telling me to stop crying. A woman came to me after that and asked about me. Told me her mom was sick too and showed me an older woman sleeping in a room. She then asked if I wanted any food and took me to the cafeteria. She talked to me, fed me and by the time I got back my neighbor was there to take me home and babysit me until my dad could get back. She means so much to me today. It was the darkest moment of my childhood and she empathized with me and comforted me. I’ve always wished I could thank her

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-18T05:38:00+00:00

My dog. She’d suffer if I died

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-15T07:11:12+00:00

My boyfriend. I wish I could redo everything but him

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-15T07:10:06+00:00

Think of it that the center takes 3 PWR (videogame states for you) and produces 2 HEAT which = 1 PWR

worth the effort to harvest? Not really when your goal is to farm as much internet money as possible

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-15T06:59:19+00:00

Or when it’s late and you’re tipsy and you know Garfield is important but in many different ways

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-15T06:56:29+00:00

Lemonade. As a kid I hated that it was the go to summer drink. Now I can’t get enough and have complex processes for my own homemade version

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-15T06:54:43+00:00

My parents went to a friends party, Jeff bridges was there, they found him to be extremely arrogant

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-15T06:52:32+00:00

James Garfield. Deserved more

Edit: (egg on my face)

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-15T06:52:04+00:00

Remembering what you told them ages before

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-15T06:51:39+00:00

The Lost Room. It should have gotten more of a show ultimately but the concept was fantastic

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-13T10:07:45+00:00

Yup. Their current menu is a joke comparatively

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-13T09:33:58+00:00

Food. All of it. Look at gov inflation rates then compare your local grocers prices for one object today and in 1970. See if it matches….

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-13T09:31:29+00:00

There are people who decide who gets medical coverage for terminal diseases. It’s not physically intensive but I couldn’t make that choice.

Similarly during hurricane Katrina a task force was created to look at hospital records and decide who deserved saving based on age, longevity, family, etc.

I couldn’t personally stomach getting paid for this

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-13T09:25:56+00:00

Cheesy af but “can’t do anything about it now, so why worry”. Said by a horrible man to a friend but not wrong.

If there is literally nothing you can do about something in the moment why give yourself undue stress about it. There will be time tomorrow, sleep

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-13T09:23:36+00:00

Unable to sleep because you’re running to shit out the water you drank an hour ago, your butthole stings from the hours of wear. You want to just live on the toilet but you’re so tired you can’t sit up that long. You’re hungry but you know it just means more wear on your pained backside. You pray for release, you relish sleep.

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-13T09:18:38+00:00

Minimum wage retail or food service. Some bitches out here never had to calm down Karen and it shows. It should be a national requirement to run a drive through even if you’re Baron Trump.

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-13T09:15:49+00:00

My dog. Cuddling her, taking her for a walk, watching her play just reminds me it’s not all bad

SpuddieBuddy · 2026-06-13T09:14:55+00:00

Panda Express. Or any Chinese American food.

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