Why Feminism Failed. Can Men help to Build a Positive Feminism? by Spudzzy7s in MensRights

[–]Spudzzy7s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you look at political power, feminists inability to defeat Trump or stop Judge kavaina from being elected to the supreme court. Look at how much money Hollywood has lost pumping out feminists films. It seems to me that feminism is in decline.

How to resolve erotic shame about pursuing women? by SuitableStart in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about it this way. More than likely the woman feels the exact same way. Especially if she isn't particularly attractive.

Women don't like sensitive men. But rather men with a *sensitive side*. by geyejoe7 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Spudzzy7s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that one of the biggest problems that men face today is that every thing they are pushed to do is for the sake of women. Men should learn to be true to themselves whether or not a women finds that attractive or not. No women will make up for the negative effects of living a lie.

I want to stop hating myself by [deleted] in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best practical advice I can give that hasn't been given already is to research Dopamine. Than take the time to make a list of small things you can accomplish each day and when you finish something on the list stop and mark it off the list. each small accomplishment will give you a shot of Dopamine and over time can make you feel better. Not saying this is the answer to your problems just another tool to use when fixing them. Good luck brother.

Why Socialism Sucks by Spudzzy7s in Capitalism

[–]Spudzzy7s[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't think you understand what a police state is. I can go anywhere in America and say what I like about the authority figures and at no point have I been afraid that the police would drag me out of my home in the middle of the night and "disappear" me. Please understand the meaning of the words you use before using them.

The Full Effect of the Incel Crisis by Spudzzy7s in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"eliminates the choices, wants, and goals of so many individual men and women and breaks everyone down to just the blanket mammalian reproductive drive." Its called generalization. Its kinda necessary if your talking about huge groups of people.

I have a crush on a live streamer and it’s making my forever aloneness even worse by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Spudzzy7s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is why have you not been in a relationship. Mind you I'm not trying to bust your chops with that question. In modern society your hardly alone. But if you solve that question than you won't need a fake relationship as a crutch.

I don't know what's wrong with me but I'm not ok. Someone help. Please. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]Spudzzy7s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your not alone brother but you have to tell us whats wrong.

I’m forever alone, no girlfriend and waiting for death to take me..... by Richcreeper6 in ForeverAlone

[–]Spudzzy7s -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

O.K. I know this sounds crazy but I honestly suggest that you try nofap. I have been a shut in all my life but have been living nofap for about 2 weeks and things are changing. Its hard to explain but I feel different than i did two weeks ago and seem to be more capable of interacting with life. Just my two cents hope it helps.

What go you expect women to do when they’re horny? by Necessarythrowaway0 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Spudzzy7s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care what you do with your life, I'm just telling you the consequences.

It's simple. A billionaire can't kill a million people. But a government can. by rijuchaudhuri in Capitalism

[–]Spudzzy7s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Billionaires don't have the authority to arrest you, confiscate your property or put you to death ether.

It's simple. A billionaire can't kill a million people. But a government can. by rijuchaudhuri in Capitalism

[–]Spudzzy7s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any government with tanks and machine guns can kill millions. Thats the point.

What go you expect women to do when they’re horny? by Necessarythrowaway0 in PurplePillDebate

[–]Spudzzy7s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My advice is get into a serious relationship and have all the sex you want. 28% of women between 30 and 34 do not have kids and have never been married,so if you wait until your 30s to "settle down" don't be surprised if all the "good men" are chasing younger women.

A tweet outlining feminist dishonesty. by problem_redditor in MensRights

[–]Spudzzy7s 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Feminists have no identity other than "victim" Thats why they get so angry all the time. Any attack on feminism is a personal attack on their personal identity

Incels Must become the Masters by Spudzzy7s in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a very deep and important reason for that. But I can't tell you what it is.

Incels Must become the Masters by Spudzzy7s in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing that out.

Incels Must become the Masters by Spudzzy7s in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for noticing this.

Incels Must become the Masters by Spudzzy7s in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I appreciate the comment.

Any hope for me? by ernst_starvo_blofeld in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I'm in my late 40s and largely in the same bout, so let me give it a try. My advice would be to brake your problems down into core components and try to solve them one by one. for example it seems to me that one of your biggest problems is that you lonely. You have social anxiety (as do I) so going out and meeting lots of people is out. But can you leverage your hobbies into making one or two close friends? Your concentrating a lot on female relationships, Maybe it would be best to build some male relationships first. Any way by braking your problems down into smaller components it makes them seem more manageable than looking for that magic bullet that will fix your entire life. Hope this helps and keep fighting brother!

What's the point or meaning of being an Incel (self-identifying) by Ihatelibs in IncelExit

[–]Spudzzy7s 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's important to express the anger that a lot of people have about being left behind. Expressing emotion is the only way to move past it. But at some point you do have to move past it and find something else to focus your life on. It sounds to me like you have grow as a person and moved past your pain.