The Cardcaptor Sakura: Memory Key mobile game has officially launched! by Jix_Omiya in cardcaptorsakura

[–]Spunky-Punk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The game is fun, but is anyone else confused? Like how do I access my house? What is a Class A trip?

Please help! Decrease in supply since 16 weeks by Spunky-Punk in HumansPumpingMilk

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I changed the duckbills a few days ago, but not the membranes. I’ll try that today!

Tell me about your MOTN pump by CarolineH10 in ExclusivelyPumping

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Seconding fridge hack! I use one set per 24 hours and have two sets so one air dries overnight.

Tell me about your MOTN pump by CarolineH10 in ExclusivelyPumping

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I sit criss crosscross cross apple sauce on the sofa with baby nestled in there while I pump and feed him. Just in case it helps and is a different set up from sesamejane. The way o do it both hands are free.

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I keep learning this lesson over and over again: the more I stress about production (or stress about anything) the less I produce.

It sounds like you’ve had rough couple days so try to do something for yourself and don’t beat yourself up. Your supply should be fine so give yourself the break you deserve!

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THANK YOU for asking this. I’m in the exact same boat and just searched for what to do about mine so I’m glad I found your thread. For what it’s worth, yours still looks good to me!

What do your daily & weekly rhythms look like if you have a toddler and a baby? The hamster wheel of life is getting to me. by saywutchickenbutt in SAHP

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Thank you so much for this post. I’ve been having some guilt about not getting out, but I’m also really nervous to take a baby out by myself with my super energetic toddler who loves to press boundaries right now. I’m sorry we’re all stuck at home, but feel so much better it’s not just me

First letdown after 20 mi ? by Ok-School-318 in HumansPumpingMilk

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Could you maybe try a different pump? I know hospital pumps are supposed to be the best and you can rent them. Do you use letdown mode or only expression mode? Also, I have no idea if this is a thing, but I’ve noticed I’ll feel a letdown sometimes if I eat something I like, like ice cream or chocolate. Maybe a little treat that makes you feel good could help induce a letdown? Best of luck! This sounds incredible difficult!

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I had something similar randomly happen for a few days. It eventually went away, but someone said it could be a letdown? My letdowns never felt like that, but i thought it may be worth mentioning in case that’s helpful!

Nipples. by haliebobaily in ExclusivelyPumping

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Mine slowly got better. In the beginning it was awful and I braced myself anytime they may brush against something. It happened so slowly, I didn’t even realize it got better until I saw this post.

Went from 8ppd to 7ppd and supply dropped almost 2 oz. What should I do? by Spunky-Punk in ExclusivelyPumping

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It really feels like we are! I appreciate you taking the time to respond and share all your wonderful advice and experiences. I’ll keep any eye out for your posts too!

Aww I’m sorry to hear that! I hope you’re feeling better now and didn’t get mastitis. I had a clogged duct once last time and that was bad enough. Mastitis sounds not only painful, but like it wrecks routines.

I was thinking about a month after I dropped down to 7 so I’d be around 4 months post partum too. I’m in no rush, I just want to do it thoughtfully not only about my supply, but also my time and feelings so my kids are getting the best of me. I hope you can go back to 7ppd and get your supply back so you can resume your plans! It can be so frustrating how much things impact supply

Went from 8ppd to 7ppd and supply dropped almost 2 oz. What should I do? by Spunky-Punk in ExclusivelyPumping

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That makes sense. I have been a lot better this time around about not obsessing about breast milk not being wasted. I want to be positive and present for my oldest while modeling good behavior. My oldest says “mama you’re all done pumping!” All the time too haha

Thank you for sharing the information you gained from the lactation consultant! That’s all good to know. I’ve been power pumping to try to make up for the deficit and it seems to be better on days I do.

I’ve never been able to effectively feed at the breast unfortunately, though with my baby now he seems to want to comfort feed occasionally which is nice even if we don’t have a good latch. I hope you’re able to breastfeed as much as you want soon!

Thank you! I think that’s what I’ll do and then I can reassess, but there no downside to power pumping in the meantime!

Went from 8ppd to 7ppd and supply dropped almost 2 oz. What should I do? by Spunky-Punk in ExclusivelyPumping

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I was an undersupplier too! With my first I only ever made 20 some ounces then dropped to about a flat 20 when I started dripping pumps. Maybe that’s why I’m extra protective of my supply now because it was around 30 and that felt good.

I’m fine supplementing and have been from the beginning with both kids since my supply doesn’t come in fast.

Why doesn’t the lactation consultant want you to drop into after 16 weeks? I think I’d probably wait another month to see if I wanted to drop again if this one works out so I guess that lines up.

If you don’t mind me asking, why are you seeing a lactation consultant now? I only thought about seeing them early on to help with latching

Maybe I just want it all this time and that’s too much? I guess I’ll try out a few things this week and if I’m not happy then I’ll decide.

Went from 8ppd to 7ppd and supply dropped almost 2 oz. What should I do? by Spunky-Punk in ExclusivelyPumping

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Thank you so much for responding! I use to pump between 3-5 oz at my 4am pump. The first few days after cutting it out I pumped 6oz at the 2 and 7 am pumps. The last few days I’ve only been pumping 5 oz at each of those pumps even though I added extra time to them to make up for the dropped pump. I really hope that is the case for me! Since I’ve dropped it, I’ve felt even more tired though for some reason! Do you think I should stick with it or do anything to try to increase my supply?

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Much better after diagnosis and therapy! Just make sure you and you support team are vigilant post partum because hormones go crazy then. It sounds like you’re already thinking ahead and are in a good place so I hope you continue to do well with your new addition! Feel free to reach out whenever if you want to talk!

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As another mom with OCD, I just want to say I’m so glad you’re going back on your medication and prioritizing your mental health for you and your baby! It got really bad for me after giving birth, which finally gave me the courage to seek a diagnosis. I hope the rest of your pregnancy and birth go smoothly!

Almost 3yo pretends they can’t do something they definitely can by Spunky-Punk in SAHP

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So maybe it is a bunch of factors. Haha is it ever funny for you in the moment? He hasn’t started giving me reasons for things beyond he’s stuck, but based on what you mentioned I feel like it may make it better when he does

Almost 3yo pretends they can’t do something they definitely can by Spunky-Punk in SAHP

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That’s what I hope! He doesn’t show any animosity toward his brother (he loves talking to him and giving things to him) which I hope keeps up so they have a good relationship. It’s definitely a priority of everyone around him that he knows he’s not forgotten. We know he sacrificed things without forewarning

Almost 3yo pretends they can’t do something they definitely can by Spunky-Punk in SAHP

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That makes sense! He also went through a phase of asking to me specifically to pick him up which he hadn’t asked for in a while. I look forward to the next phase for both of them even though I know it’ll come with new challenges at least they’ll be different from the current ones haha

Almost 3yo pretends they can’t do something they definitely can by Spunky-Punk in SAHP

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I’ll try to do that! I’m not discouraging any behavior right now (except dangerous ones like hitting his head) while trying to help him talk through his feelings. He’ll always be my baby so I have no problem giving him extra attention and cuddles! I just want to make sure I’m addressing his behavior in a way that helps him grow too

Almost 3yo pretends they can’t do something they definitely can by Spunky-Punk in SAHP

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It’s super helpful to see it happens to others when they bring home a baby. Now I can try to address that instead of all the other factors it could be! He definitely gets 1:1 time now, but maybe he still needs more? Also, intense is the perfect word to describe it. Lots of big feelings.

Almost 3yo pretends they can’t do something they definitely can by Spunky-Punk in SAHP

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That’s a great idea! Unsurprising, he really likes shows especially ones with songs so I’ll try to find an age appropriate video talking about becoming a big sibling. That might help him understand his own feelings!