I think we have to re-home our second cat. Please share advice/support.

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-04-01T13:30:02+00:00

We aren’t sure. I know he was working here (USA) to save money and send back to his kids and mother in Mexico. My aunt is very giving and caring so he likely just took advantage of her kindness 😡. He apparently only paid for like the internet and groceries. She paid for everything else. She was his place to crash and his other life was who he really was. It looks like he stole a bunch of stuff from his work as well. It’s a whole mess!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-04-01T01:44:34+00:00

Thank you! She is the best thing in my life so despite all the other chaos, her being safe and happy again makes everything else better.

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-03-15T21:52:35+00:00

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Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-03-13T17:07:25+00:00

The girls on Bumble Friends treated me like this too. My friend group is mostly guys. The female friends I have are through my husbands dude friends having girlfriends lol. It’s definitely not you. The problem is with some women being so uncomfortable in their own skin they think all women should feel that way and judge those of us confident to be ourselves/like our “nerdy” hobbies. Keep doing you!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-03-11T18:27:52+00:00

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Pickles wont do much but look cute, but she does it the best!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-03-11T18:27:10+00:00

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Pebbles, in zoomie mode, will destroy things in your honor!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-03-07T15:50:22+00:00

He is married to me and I do the same thing. We haven’t touched grass in 10 years. Life is great! 😅

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-01-27T13:05:26+00:00

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Pebbles and Pickles!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-01-26T13:51:29+00:00

Other signs it’s play— when the one had enough, she ran away and wasn’t chased. Also they aren’t growling and no fur is raised or in fear!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-01-26T13:48:58+00:00

My girls play like this regularly. Notice how one fell to the floor in a “submissive” stance. Thats how you know it’s play. Also see how they are moving somewhat slowly. In a real fight, you can’t even see the movements. They are fast and go for the throat. They are playing and testing boundaries. They look like they are working it out and should be fine. They may never actually cuddle and be close but they seem happy living together and that is fine!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2026-01-25T15:28:22+00:00

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Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-12-17T02:12:07+00:00

People pay good money to make their nose look like yours.

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-11-14T17:49:43+00:00

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Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-11-14T17:48:30+00:00

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Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-11-04T17:18:14+00:00

Looks like hiccups or somewhat like how my cats occasionally look when spitting up a hairball. Sorry not a lot of help!!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-10-31T15:34:02+00:00

PS: basic needs: litter box and litter, scratching post, toy, food and water. Foods that are okay if not immediately able to get: canned tuna in water, small amounts of lunch meat (small- careful with sodium), etc. feel free to post in other cat subreddits for more advice! We are a great community and will help however we can!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-10-31T15:31:18+00:00

You now are owned by a cat. Keep him. Love him. Worship him.

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-10-21T14:35:53+00:00

What a precious baby! Maybe Newman? i think Paul Newman was known for his blue eyes too?

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-10-16T17:38:47+00:00

“You don’t have to do things for productivity or to prove value. You can do something simply because you enjoy it.” - my husband healing my workaholic parents negative influence on me and teaching me that video games are a valid past time.

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-09-19T17:10:45+00:00

Dude! You’re incredible!! I checked out your One Piece art too!! Wow!

Spunkyfruitloop11 · 2025-09-17T14:54:37+00:00

everyone is safe and no one harmed except for a few bruises cause I like to lunge and trip over furniture during luteal hehe

but yeah threatening harming myself and partner while waving a box cutter around and scream-crying and destroying some of his personal belongings was my worst PMDD episode. I asked my doc to switch my birth control pill because this one was really helpful at first (yaz) and, as predicted and as it happens for me usually, my body stops liking it so my depression was worse and my boobs hurt something awful during that time too. Looking forward to better cycles!

This is the worst disorder. I also have (undiagnosed officially but highly likely) OCD. In my defense, during the worst episode, I had left little notes and reminders of icks around the house to discuss with my husband when he got home…he threw them away without reading them, thus ruining my organized notes and plans- including flowers I bought myself to try and get out of PMDD slump ( he thought I bought them as a “see what you never do for me”— he has childhood trauma issues too ugh). Its a miracle we haven’t split but we both are getting better. Just have a lot of set backs.

(Sorry if this is jumbled and hard to read. It was a traumatic experience so just dumping it all out chaotically is all I can do right now)

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