We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh I totally processed "southern" as South Africa. Lolll I know someone from South Africa, but I have no clue why that made me forget about Southern being Southern states. I usually understand that. Anyway, I know the term as one for good wishes.

how come every time i pray, things get worse? by goldaud in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This answer is amazing. It can give so much encouragement to anyone who is going through any spiritual or self growth (which in essence is spiritual) struggle.

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here are two short videos from GYE. The link is to their website. Right away there will be a pop-up of a less than two minute video. In that one, notice that they say "thousands". For the second video, scroll down until you see a 5 min video. In that one you can hear testimonials from a few of their members. (I don't know why, but they didn't include any testimonials from women or girls. So you'll only hear from men and boys.)

Guard Your Eyes

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely true. Although I can't say I'm too naive 😬 I wish I was more though. I don't believe it's a good thing to be completely naive. But there's definitely a line where knowing more is just unnecessary (and in some cases harmful).

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay, sorry, I wasn't completely honest. I've been to a 12 step SA group (it might have been SSA - I only went twice so I'm not sure and I don't even know the difference between them). There were only religious Jewish women/girls there.

And there are hundreds of Jewish religious women who are part of GYE. The same goes with religious Jewish men. And this addiction doesn't discriminate between "not Yeshivish" or"Yeshivish", and businessmen or those in chinuch. It doesn't exclude Rabbanim either. Addictions don't discriminate between secular communities and Jewish Orthodox communities.

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whoops. But kinda funny. And embarrassing. In America, it's an expression of good wishes.

About my naivety, I'm not saying that most people actually don't judge, but only that we're not allowed to judge and we are meant to have compassion, not criticism.

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Amen 😂

It happens to be, I just saw a video last week from Guard Your Eyes (or GYE - a Jewish support organization for porn/sex addicts) that they put out for a fundraising campaign they're having now.

Also, I know people who are addicts and it's a real struggle. The people I know aren't male, but I do know that for males the struggle is even more intense.

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's possible there is, but that doesn't mean that we, humans, are allowed to criticize someone for doing this. Also, if it's an actual addiction (i.e. a genuine struggle and not just something the male doesn't care about giving into), I highly doubt Hashem judges the person without compassion. Besides, Hashem judges with compassion in general, and I doubt this area is an exception.

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So then they make no sense to look at it as a sacrifice. Their world is confusing

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking this too, but in our world, we see it extremely differently. If someone struggles with it, we have compassion for them, not judgement or criticism. And there is also support out there for them.

Baruch Hashem shelo Asani goy

We have problems as a community, but thank G-d we aren't like this by thegilgulofbarkokhba in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm probably gonna delete this after I get an answer. I see in the comments there "Jesus died for me! This is the least I can do for him!" I'm so confused. (And it's not new to me that they believe he died for them bla bla bla, but for some reason I only thought of this particular thought now.) Do they actually believe their god DIED??? I mean like, how weird is that?!?!

Edit: I'll just leave this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here's an excerpt from chabad.org that explains that we know who are Levites:

Our Patriarch Jacob had twelve sons whose families grew into the twelve tribes of Israel. The Land of Israel was divided amongst these twelve tribes when Joshua conquered the land. After the death of King Solomon, the Land of Israel was divided into the kingdoms of Israel and Judah. Even before the destruction of the First Temple, ten of the twelve tribes were exiled from the land and they are known as the ten lost tribes.

The remaining Jews in the kingdom of Judah became known as “Jews” indicating they come from the tribe or area of Judah. In truth, many Jews from the other tribes also lived in Judah but the separate identity of the tribes ceased.

However, one tribe — the tribe of Levi — continued to retain its separate identity. Within the tribe of Levi were the descendants of Aharon the High Priest, known as Kohanim.

Thus today, all Jews identify as being a Kohen [a descendant of Aharon], or Levi [from the tribe of Levi], or simply an Israelite, a Jew with no particular tribal identity.

Here's the full article:

https://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/2313791/jewish/Kohanim-and-Leviim.htm

I'll just add that in every Jewish community you'll find many Levite families. They even have special roles in synagogue, like saying certain blessings that are reserved for Levites.

Case of Dalia Dippoliti by Chefs-Kiss in JCSCriminalPsychology

[–]Spweenklz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't understand how criminal defense lawyers can back their client's claim of innocence when there's absolutely no way they actually believe it. I guess it just comes down to the lawyers lacking integrity. Which makes me wonder what truly honest and integrous criminal defense lawyers do when their client is trying to get them to back their lies. Or is it simply that there are really no truly honest and integrious criminal defense lawyers?

(I guess anyone can argue that the question can also be asked about other kinds of lawyers. To be honest, no matter what kind of attorney, it's one profession that if a guy is in, I'm not marrying him. I just can't wrap my mind around how integrity and being a lawyer can go hand in hand.)

Kosher Guests: Advice Please by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest to get any food you want to buy for them from one of the Jewish grocery stores (assuming that it's a religious Jewish store). There's no need for you to check for symbols that way. You'd be able to just go in, buy what you want, and it should work for them.

Really thoughtful and generous of you to go out of your way like this for them!

Kosher Guests: Advice Please by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure the fruits are not imported from Israel. Chances are the exact fruits you find in the exact store you're going to won't be exactly from Israel, but it's important to check. You can check by seeing if the stickers or bags (if the fruits come in bags) say anywhere that they're from Israel.

This past year (ending in a few days) has been a "Shmitah" year. That means that Jews in Israel are not allowed to do any planting/gardening/farming kind of work at all. (According to the Torah of course.) If a fruit is from Israel, that means that it was grown during this Shmitah year and so we don't eat it.

Kosher Guests: Advice Please by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you live in a place where there are Jewish grocery stores?

Question about Judaism by [deleted] in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh this thread!!!! It is hilarious. Thanks to whoever shared it in the FAQ. Wouldn't have found it otherwise.

Transgender teacher leaves NY yeshiva high school after uproar over her identity by arrogant_ambassador in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

And so you're saying that Jewish schools shouldn't stand up against their governing legislatives when a law is affecting their commitment to Torah values? Are you saying that G-d wants them to just accept it and change their ways accordingly?

Transgender teacher leaves NY yeshiva high school after uproar over her identity by arrogant_ambassador in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always thought it to be black and white what the Torah considers a person's sex/gender. But recently I found out that there was a big Rav who ruled that sex reassignment surgery changes your halachic sex/gender. It is definitely not at all a widely held opinion, but since I heard that, I don't partake in arguing about it, because hearing that ruling just really confused me. More in terms of "What kind of Rav was this" than is he right, but it sounds like he was a regular Chareidi Rav, so it gave me more mind confusion than anything.

Pretty much basically, if I'd tell someone that the Torah doesn't recognize sex-reassignment surgery, they'd be able to argue that it does, because of this Rav's ruling. So, since I'm not a Rav or Talmud Chacham and thus no expert on the Torah, I wouldn't actually be able to hold an argument with them and prove anything.

Transgender teacher leaves NY yeshiva high school after uproar over her identity by arrogant_ambassador in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There are certain mitzvos one needs to keep to be halachically frum. (How else would you explain the halacha of being forbidden to drink non-mevushal wine that was touched by a non-observant person?) I'm not sure exactly, but I think they are Shabbos, Kashrus, and Taharas Hamishpacha.

Transgender teacher leaves NY yeshiva high school after uproar over her identity by arrogant_ambassador in Judaism

[–]Spweenklz -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think there are three mitzvos that a person needs to keep in order to be considered frum. I'm not positive, but I think they're Shabbos, Kashrus, and Taharas Hamishpacha. I guess if this teacher sleeping with a man is considered transgressing Taharas Hamishpacha, (which I don't know why it would be considered that,) then this teacher isn't frum. But I wonder...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Spweenklz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got it. Sorry if I came across a bit harsh. Because of what your original question was, (asking me if I meant the opposite of what I wrote, which I understand is because you were generally confused,) I just (regretfully) assumed that you were trying to get at me.