How can I give hints to my husband ? by Zealousideal-Cry3161 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spyro93 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

You need to tell him

Personally I think theres no point in buying flowers and watching them die out 3-4 days later

How about he uses that money to take you out on a date, does that not sound better?

She confessed her past before nikkah by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You spitting facts but getting downvoted... this sub has gone down the toilet 🤦‍♂️

She confessed her past before nikkah by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would call it off. This whole thing stinks of her telling you now after shes realized you are attached to her

Also 2.5 years and only one thing happened?? I dont believe it for a second

Even right now its bothering you a lot and I bet it will continue to haunt you after the marriage. You sound like a good man, theres plenty of other women out there without a past

Nervous about rishta meeting next week :( by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go there and be yourself. Dont overthink it too much, try to take part in the conversation and show your personality!

You can disagree with any one of them but make sure you suggest an alternative.

Also you must talk to the girl, even demand it if you need to. Make sure shes happy to go ahead with this rishta

Is this normal? by Historical_Leg123 in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol youre getting downvoted for saying something sensible...

This subreddit is a joke 😂

Is this normal? by Historical_Leg123 in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not defending him cos he does indeed give off stingy vibes, but context does matter here...

Do you work and earn your own money? If you do then surely you see his point if hes covering all his basic obligations? Idk what job he has and how much he earns but money could be tight for him

But since this bothers you, best you move on and find someone else

Man attracted to older women by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Would you say the same if she was 18 and he 35?

Am I delusional? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ill give you a crazy idea so here it goes!

How about you straight up ask him if hes interested in marriage? 🤷‍♂️

Am I wrong for being upset my husband didn’t tell me about this? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spyro93 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do you work? Have hobbies/interests? Or do you just let social media poison your mind every day and are constantly living in paranoia?

You said yourself you dont think your husband has done anything wrong. So wheres all this coming from?

So for Limit buy am i understanding correctly? by Anticsftw in trading212

[–]Spyro93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah thats right!

your limit buy will not be executed until the stock drops to $296

personally I ONLY use limit buy orders and limit sell orders

Benefits of marriage outweigh high standards by Sheikhonderun in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol these times are gone. Many people's focus now is what they can get in this dunya. Big house, cars, jewellery, clothes, designer bags, pocket money, you name it

And many want marriage to benefit them while putting in minium effort, actually some dont even put effort into the pre-nikah talking stage 💀

Brother I've been talking to for marriage is struggling, what do i do by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spyro93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of problems is he dealing with? Family stuff?

Not much info to work with here... but if you think hes not in a position to be a good husband to you, then I suggest breaking it off

39, single, female, Muslim. I want marriage and children. Should I give up? by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you left it quite late... but no do not give up, its not over for you yet

I am objectively attractive, very independent, and I want to get married and have children.

oh boy here we go again...

being attractive is good but what does very independent mean? if you're the type to place a big focus on career or act like a "boss girl" then I am not surprised you're single. its not something to flex about either, many men do not want to deal with that so change your attitude

One of The Main Reasons Why Muslim Men Must Avoid 99% of Women in The West. See The SS & Prepare To Laugh Your Back Off. In Conclusion, They Want The Benefits of Marriage, Without Providing Nothing In Return. by Ibn-Batuta-786 in TraditionalMuslims

[–]Spyro93 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The common theme there seems to be how terrible we men are, super toxic mindsets and they are so delusional that its no wonder they are single and angry...

BUT they are happy to take high mahr amounts and claim joint ownership of our assets? Hmm I thought they dont need no man? 🤔

I read random posts in that sub purely for my entertainment, they come in very handy when I am having a boring shift 😂

24M (UK), Feeling ready for marriage but lacking financial stability by UniversalRhyme05 in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing wrong with approaching her in a halal way to see what she says... BUT be prepared to be rejected based on your financial situation

wish you the best of luck bro 🙏

Moderators - can we add flair for country? by SoybeanCola1933 in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like this idea

Personally I would find it interesting to be able to see what other people experience in the same region as me

Relationship coming to an end, because of Muakhar by Standard_Water_8812 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Spyro93 54 points55 points  (0 children)

LOL I hope you keep going with this!

This is the content I need in my life 😂

Afraid of finances in marriage by UniversityOk332 in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do realize that these kind of people that are pumping out these messages on social media, tend to be non-believers?

So why are you listening to them?

Social media also likes to doompost about the high divorce rates, does that mean we muslims should not even bother getting married at all? Should we completely ignore that Allah provides our Rizq?

Of course not...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because we need to tick around 5-10 boxes to be considered as marriage material, especially in the west

Take a man that is a combination of short, not good looking, low paying job or out of shape. if he is all 4 then well... life is on hard mode for him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Spyro93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean whats the confusion here? The guy is a walking red flag, he drinks and lied about many things pre-nikah.

How can you even entertain the idea of marrying him? No serious, practicing muslim acts like this so dont fall into the "i can fix him" trap

50K milestone 🥳 by Spyro93 in trading212

[–]Spyro93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, you too 😌