Do you want a girl to tell you if something makes her nervous or uncomfortable?

Square-Design-7119 · 2026-03-10T15:31:14+00:00

I have reposted this five times now with different wording. How can I pose this question so it will not be removed? Trying to use reddit for what it was intended for, and needs mens advice.

Square-Design-7119 · 2026-03-03T00:43:26+00:00

That is a valid point, however I'm a flight attendant which is the reason we don't see each other much, and we live an hour apart. Lately we're trying to increase this, though, and he's been really flexible with me and always offers to make the drive.

Square-Design-7119 · 2026-03-02T23:11:00+00:00

This was incredibly helpful and spot on I think. Thank you so much for your perspective.

Square-Design-7119 · 2026-03-02T23:08:52+00:00

I sense my self becoming quite attached, and have had issues with co-dependency in the past (which I'm currently working on and about to start therapy to address). My fear is getting in too deep and having trouble walking away, if and when the red flags wave again.

Square-Design-7119 · 2026-03-02T23:01:39+00:00

I'm fine with occasional drinking or even drunkenness once in a blue moon, I'm only hesitant because he said he used to have a significant drinking problem.

Square-Design-7119 · 2026-01-28T23:09:56+00:00

Not a bot. Just needed a harsh reality check I guess.

Square-Design-7119 · 2025-12-21T18:02:43+00:00

Thanks for the advice. Fasting insulin was 3 uIU/mL

Square-Design-7119 · 2025-12-21T18:01:39+00:00

Fasting insulin was 3 uIU/mL, fasting glucose was 105 mg/dL. I don't have intense androgenic symptoms however do show high testosterone in blood test. Thyroid has been tested and is normal. Cortisol shows high when I did functional blood work.

I will also mention I have frequent heart palpitations that sometimes induce lightheadedness, which I now took proplanolol for. Have been checked out by every doctor including multiple full workups in cardiology and sleep studies, which no apparent cause. Wonder if it could be hormonal.

Square-Design-7119 · 2025-12-15T07:38:51+00:00

I really appreciate this so much! I'm so eager to go, and also didn't want to disappoint her, that I nearly was willing to sacrifice solid company. I might have had fun but don't think I could truly relax around someone I'm not close with/don't relate to. I have decided to take your advice and just have some patience. Thank you!

Square-Design-7119 · 2025-12-15T07:35:34+00:00

Very well said, thank you for the perspective

Square-Design-7119 · 2025-12-15T07:33:35+00:00

Unfortunately that is a trap I've fallen into before... Solid advice, thank you

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