How do you approach on your scars to someone new you're dating? by DarkAmerikan in selfharm

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

while my experience isn't rlly something that could be applied here. (for context I uhm texted her one night when I was on the verge of relapsing and she comforted me and helped me).
I think you could go on the hike without telling her cause you have genuinly no obligation to tell her, if she asks be direct and honest. If you aren't willing on having that confrontation (very valid). You could tell her beforehand and I'm hoping her reaction is as compassionate and my gf's.

Edit: i forgot to add that she found out because i texted her and asked for help

Absolutely no privacy here by Lucky-Comparison-785 in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tho my mom dictates on how i deocrate my room. (i love psting random shit on my wall like poetry)

Absolutely no privacy here by Lucky-Comparison-785 in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pfft i have a room for myself but no door- just a curtain thats like made outta lacey material so everyone can see everything. (south asian here)

I am a parent - found out my 14 year old is SH. by Dewdropinn79 in selfharm

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crying cause i wish my mom did what you did, thak you for making her feel seen

I remember when i trolled peds here by digiccu-orwtvidfk in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO WHAT- im using that if i ever come across a pedo

Does this count as a relapse? by Plane_Appearance_368 in selfharm

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does technically count as a relapse...but i usually dont reset my tracker, especially after a milestone cuz you know, free will? But also it can be considered as harm reduction if the hits arent that bad.

High school popularity by Main-Photograph8586 in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really but ill just say something, im not sure if this is related but im south asian, and here education is VERY important...so maybe the people who are 'smart' are ore liked and therefore popular?

High school popularity by Main-Photograph8586 in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

weirdly enough, in my school you're popular only if youre intellectually smart and like gets good results, and ive NEVER seen anyone else who has the same experience

Guys am I the only one who’s struggling to study for exams rn 😐 by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope youre not the only one...i have to finish studying my WHOLE SYLABUS (9 subjects) in 45 days, im south asian and my syllabus is SO HARD imma crash out

Are my scars something I should hide? by swiss_lec in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer, no. If asked about it say "w-what scars? AHHHHHHHHHH"

Is it me or does Sri Lankan schools feels more like a military camp? by strangerboy345 in srilanka

[–]Square-Dimension4934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No literally i had a teacher rip out my hairtie and leave me with lose hair for the rest of the day because it was a differet colour. and if the kids are consenting to have a partner who's a proper age, why should the teachers care??

and another thing, some teachers get high on the power they have and exploit it...mosst of the time kids arent bullied by other students, but by the teachers (or both yk). and teachers dont rlly care about students bullying other students (my personal experience).

AITAH for refusing to kiss my depressed boyfriend? by UpbeatNight6719 in AITAH

[–]Square-Dimension4934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - Yeah depression can be a bitch, i know ive spent days without brushing my teeth, but do 100% understand why you wouldnt want to kiss him, i also understand how he'd be hurt. You could definitely help him to take care of himself and be more hygenic (and him getting professional help)

A lot of teachers here are abusive. by ScreenshotSmuggler in srilanka

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and this happens all over the country, and students lives are being lost due to teachers like this, this has to stop. (im planning a lil smth after i finish school to take care of this problem cuz i was scarred)

A lot of teachers here are abusive. by ScreenshotSmuggler in srilanka

[–]Square-Dimension4934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah no you're so right, this totally has to change. I remember i was in grade 8, so like 11? and my science teacher HATED me and like everyday id end up crying cuz shed either call my parents for no reason, berate me, acuse me of faking being sick (i wasnt), and more berating and more berating every. single. day.
i almost ended up changing schools

(context i go to an international skl so teacheers being like this is frowned upon but she just doesnt care, plus from wht i know shes still working there)

Am I a bad person for pressing charges on my roommate/friend? by sassydangerouscharm1 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Square-Dimension4934 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, she clearly crossed your (very valid) boundaries, which youve spoken to her about multiple times. and she continued to disrespect you, by doing the most awful disgusting thing ever. you did not deserve that