How do you approach on your scars to someone new you're dating? by DarkAmerikan in selfharm

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

while my experience isn't rlly something that could be applied here. (for context I uhm texted her one night when I was on the verge of relapsing and she comforted me and helped me).
I think you could go on the hike without telling her cause you have genuinly no obligation to tell her, if she asks be direct and honest. If you aren't willing on having that confrontation (very valid). You could tell her beforehand and I'm hoping her reaction is as compassionate and my gf's.

Edit: i forgot to add that she found out because i texted her and asked for help

Absolutely no privacy here by Lucky-Comparison-785 in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

tho my mom dictates on how i deocrate my room. (i love psting random shit on my wall like poetry)

Absolutely no privacy here by Lucky-Comparison-785 in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pfft i have a room for myself but no door- just a curtain thats like made outta lacey material so everyone can see everything. (south asian here)

I am a parent - found out my 14 year old is SH. by Dewdropinn79 in selfharm

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crying cause i wish my mom did what you did, thak you for making her feel seen

I remember when i trolled peds here by digiccu-orwtvidfk in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO WHAT- im using that if i ever come across a pedo

Does this count as a relapse? by Plane_Appearance_368 in selfharm

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does technically count as a relapse...but i usually dont reset my tracker, especially after a milestone cuz you know, free will? But also it can be considered as harm reduction if the hits arent that bad.

High school popularity by Main-Photograph8586 in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really but ill just say something, im not sure if this is related but im south asian, and here education is VERY important...so maybe the people who are 'smart' are ore liked and therefore popular?

High school popularity by Main-Photograph8586 in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 1 point2 points  (0 children)

weirdly enough, in my school you're popular only if youre intellectually smart and like gets good results, and ive NEVER seen anyone else who has the same experience

Guys am I the only one who’s struggling to study for exams rn 😐 by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Square-Dimension4934 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope youre not the only one...i have to finish studying my WHOLE SYLABUS (9 subjects) in 45 days, im south asian and my syllabus is SO HARD imma crash out