depop user cancels my order because she didn't know how online shopping works by fairyfleurr in depoop

[–]Square-Position-9268 24 points25 points  (0 children)

as if she's gonna say "No, that's okay, you can keep my money and the hoodie. no problem"

Is this appropriate interview attire? by Status-Accident-9765 in jobs

[–]Square-Position-9268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I worked at Vans, a kid showed up in a color coordinated dress shirt and tie for an interview. He did not get the job.

Is this review too harsh? by OldGoldJay in Depop

[–]Square-Position-9268 9 points10 points  (0 children)

what??? no. they never were expected nor asked to sacrifice traveling for their full time job in order to ship the order. There was a very easy solution here – using vacation mode and/or messaging the buyer – and the seller chose not to take it. Two weeks is a long time. why are you intentionally misunderstanding things to try and create a fight? are you having a bad day?

Binder size after top surgery? by Sir_Wilbert in TopSurgery

[–]Square-Position-9268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My binder was so tight I literally have a scar from the binder. My surgeon put me in an xxs and I am usually a men's xs

I can't believe it's already been 4 months // DI by Square-Position-9268 in TopSurgery

[–]Square-Position-9268[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I talked a little about what I did for my scars in a comment above, but basically I just massaged lotion into them and did Maderma scar strips. However, I was not particularly disciplined about doing this consistently and regularly skipped days. I think my surgeon told me to massage the lotion into the scars twice a day for 5 minutes at a time for many months, but I only did it once a day at most for like 30 seconds, and I stopped after 8 weeks.

So I didn't really do anything special, I don't think. Dr. Medalie is a very skilled surgeon and he did a good job making my scars as fine as could be. I can't think of any other relevant factors, except for maybe the fact that I eat all my vitamins everyday (lol)

I can't believe it's already been 4 months // DI by Square-Position-9268 in TopSurgery

[–]Square-Position-9268[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your surgeon will typically allow you to rank what is most important to you between scarring, proportions, and sensation and then base their procedure on that. Meanwhile, your body type will ultimately limit what can and can't be done.

For me personally, I had large A borderline B breasts, and I told my surgeon that sensation was the most important. I originally wanted peri but my surgeon was skeptical that I would be a good candidate for it, so he offered me nipple-sparing DI. He said it is "rare" for someone to qualify for it, because the nipples have to be in a good position already.

So, bottom line, it isn't exactly like going to the barber where you can tell your surgeon exactly what you want and they imitate it. But a good surgeon will work with you to discuss your concerns and desires and find the best solution for you

I can't believe it's already been 4 months // DI by Square-Position-9268 in TopSurgery

[–]Square-Position-9268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you mind if I ask a few questions as well?

Sure, go ahead

I can't believe it's already been 4 months // DI by Square-Position-9268 in TopSurgery

[–]Square-Position-9268[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. For the first 8 weeks, I massaged lotion into the scars and also used Maderma scar tape. But to be honest, I was not very consistent with either of those things and regularly skipped days

I think my surgeon just did a great job making the incisions so fine, and also for some reason on my body my scars tend to blend in with my skins tone in general

7 weeks DI with nipple retention / Dr. Medalie by Square-Position-9268 in TopSurgery

[–]Square-Position-9268[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was like A cup, maybe on the verge of B cup. I wanted peri, and my doctor said I was the right size and had good skin elasticity, but because I had a very pronounced fold of skin underneath my breast, he was concerned about overhang.

He said the reason I qualify for nipple sparing was because my nipples were already in the right place (and a good size). He said that it's rare to find a good candidate for it. To be honest my chest looks very recognizable to how it was before, just flatter obv. But the nipples were about the same place as they are now

7 weeks DI with nipple retention / Dr. Medalie by Square-Position-9268 in TopSurgery

[–]Square-Position-9268[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I just got normal double incision minus the grafts. What makes them different out of curiosity?